Where we recognize understanding the modern day woman is like understanding a  Joe biden rant......ahhhh man i miss the good ol days...I remember when things were simple....presidents were coherent and girls sent me a straightforward letter of check yes or no....but of course these were the days of pre rampant social media....now to pinpoint the collapse of civilization is not always an easy target....the bullseye of blame is always moving,  one group misrepresents the other and vice versa.....the truth somehow is harder than Chinese arithmetic....speaking of our eneny... funny how the Chinese are behind tik tok, covid, and cheap ass products....but those are for another time....WOMEN....the deceptive rose veiled in a blanket of thorns....we as men are smitten with the allure of beauty and we crave the taste of the forbidden fruit.....but like the good ol adage of the alcoholic...one drink is too much but NEVER enough.....I've been known to drink myself in such a stupor I'd wake up with piss running down my leg....defintely   not the most flattering and constructive place to be....but one may be more apt to choose piss than the modern day mayhem of dating....so on one hand we long for a traditional woman,, of character...., of submissive strength ....and well...the courage to commitment, but we don't necessarily want some plain Jane yes master woman with a baby on her hip and Amish dress to her ankles......and on the other hand we want sexy, attractive and someone that challenges us to be better, but God forbid she posts provocative pic...wellll provocative is too light of a word...some chick's are posting skank ass pictures, let's call it what is.....only fans got every women thinking she's beyonce or Jada Pinkett Smith or Brittany spears...or whoever the hell, maybe Billie Ellish......my point being we want a partner that promotes growth, but not undermines the very role of what it means to function as a man. FEMINISM not ATTRACTIVE women, and on the other end of that spectrum stuffy traditionalism is boring.....I think it's time to bring tradition to the present.  A new tradition if you will.....imagine a woman commited to the conservative values of respect, honor, trust, man, woman..  and the nature associated with while able to traverese modern times..... and imagine a man that knows his value and ESTABLISHES it....no more mr n8ce giy welcome mat gentleman.....earlier I  eluded to one facet of modern day dating, and again its only one facet,  but it's a dam sure leaky faucet as we all know ...and that is social media.....and .its consequences are flooding the floorplan of healthy realtionships and altogether healthy confidence.see confidence comes from validation..youre good at something so others confirm this with approval.hell we all need validation,. BUUT it needs to be healthy..30 fat dudes covered in last night's sweat liking a chicks half ass covered sweet spot is not validation.it's simping and ignites a false sense of ego.....so of course women are walking around inflated with the guise of valudation, because it's easy....AND GAWWD..we love the easy button..society no longer promotes or applauds the traditional woman..so young women are thrust into the , show my boobs or get left behind mentality..little Ciara learned being proactive gets more attention and in a fatherless society she's looking for all sorts of psychological validation..not to mention media and pop culture suggests this is what men want..but do we..and maybe we have contributed to this....what numbers of men simp out to the less is more .. when it comes to clothing,  how many men are lost in porn or smashing the like button on the barely clad pics and how many men contribute to the blown up egos of women In the comment sections..have we went too far in proclaiming the traditional woman not sexy enough... not bold enough ...that we've tipped the scale of validation to the extremes of some ....some..after hours Vegas party....yes we want some excitement in the relationship, some edge, but not at the cost of losing what's pure and truly effeminate... our women have turned into some raunchy depiction of a titty bar...validation must not come from hormonal adolescent behavior....and it dam sure cannot come from some chauvinistic asshole because that's a contributing factor in the feminist deconstructing the true nature of man and woman....the middle ground is always present....hell we've been tip toeing around it for a few generations now, but as men.... leaders and the ones actually validating women....let's stand up with some Backbone and declare this is what we desire in women.....
And by no means does this make navigating relationships easier....like I said women are like Chinese arithmetic,  but far more rewarding than covid....now If we could ever get them off tik tok....love and respect gentleman....time to recourse the degenerate, starting at home....