Dear Steve,

I moved here recently from Phoenix and before I left, I was seeing a pretty decent guy. Steady job, has hit sh*t together if you know what I mean. When he’s not working, he plays on a club soccer team which travels to a lot of different places around the southwest. When we lived closer to each other, I would sometimes go with him on roadtrips, but I can’t do that now as often as I’d like, and I have to admit, I get a bit weird about his trips. I suppose you’ll think I have “trust issues”, but I have to wonder why now I don’t hear about his roadtrips as often and why sometimes, I’ll go a couple days without hearing from him when he’s on the road. Am I being paranoid or should I just confront him about this?

Signed,
Horny Little SunDevil