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18 SEP 2024 · SHOW NOTES: On this show…we are hopefully going to come to the realization that you don’t have to choose just one path in life but you can explore multiple passions and always reinvent yourself. When was the first time someone asked you what you wanted to be when you grew up? Four or five? As if you even know there were a varied array of options at that age not to mention what you were even capable of. Fast forward, are you there yet? You don’t have to stick to just one path in life—explore your passions and embrace the idea of doing more than one thing! Whether it’s pursuing a new interest, changing careers, or adding a side project, you can always reinvent yourself. It’s never too late to grow, learn, and discover new opportunities that align with who you are today. My earliest memory was somewhere before age five and I wanted to be an actress. My parents recorded me saying that I wanted to be this because I had a long, red, sparkly dress. I must have just watched a red carpet awards show or something. Even though I did end up doing a variety of plays, a little modeling, and some B-rated promo videos I am not an actress. Then in High School, I watched a lot of People’s Court and thought I wanted to be a lawyer which is funny since they represent themselves but I’m not, a lawyer. My Dad thought I should be a nurse because I love people and am so encouraging. Even though I’m a Grey’s Anatomy junkie I am not, a nurse. My first-grade teachers and every teacher thereafter said I talk too much…ding ding, I am in sales, marketing, and public speaking. But that’s not all I do. Today I’m a life, recovery, and career coach, a VP of operations, I run support groups, am a motivational speaker, a Hospice volunteer, a CEO mentor, a Woman in Business, and an avid crocheter who also loves to sew! I love a lot of things and feel I’m good at a lot of things and there are days were I’m still answering that question; of what I want to be when I grow up. Maybe you’re just getting started. Maybe you’re at a crossroads and looking for something different, or maybe it’s all in your rearview mirror and you’re ready for phase 2. I say follow your curiosity and create a life that reflects all the things you’re passionate about. There’s no limit to what you can do! https://hbr.org/2023/10/values-passion-or-purpose-which-should-guide-your-careerhttps://www.forbes.com/sites/kathycaprino/2019/02/15/stop-searching-for-career-passion-you-wont-find-it-that-way/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IYaf2DjSTLc Uncovering your passions is an exciting journey of self-discovery! Here are some strategies to help you find what truly excites you:
- Reflect on what energizes you: Think about activities, conversations, or tasks that make you feel alive, focused, or fulfilled. What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
- Revisit childhood interests: Sometimes the things we loved as children hold clues to our true passions. Did you love art, building things, or exploring nature? Rediscover those activities.
- Experiment and explore: Try new things—take up hobbies, join classes, or attend workshops. The more you expose yourself to different experiences, the more likely you are to find something that resonates.
- Identify your strengths: What do others often praise you for? Your natural talents can offer insights into what you enjoy and excel at, leading you toward activities you’re passionate about.
- Pay attention to curiosity: Notice what topics or activities you feel curious about or want to learn more about. Follow your curiosity—it’s often a sign that something could be a passion.
- Consider your values: Reflect on what matters most to you—helping others, creativity, adventure, or learning? Your passions are often aligned with your core values.
- Ask yourself questions: What do you find yourself daydreaming about? What would you do if money were no object? What problems in the world do you feel drawn to solve?
- Talk to others: Connect with people who are passionate about different things. Their enthusiasm can spark ideas and inspire you to explore areas you hadn’t considered before.
- Take note of your flow moments: When do you lose track of time because you’re so immersed in what you’re doing? These “flow” moments are often indicators of passion.
CHALLENGE: You have the power to shape your potential—challenge your self-talk and start believing in your ability to grow, learn, and take on new opportunities. Push past limiting thoughts and take bold action today; you’re capable of far more than you think! I Know YOU Can Do It!
12 SEP 2024 · SHOW NOTES: On this show…we unleash our instincts and seize the moment as we find our voice and speak our truth. How many moments have passed you by? Has the cat got your tongue as you overanalyzed a situation instead of acting on impulse? That is time you can’t get back and possibilities that will never be. Life’s too short to hold back. Acting on instinct and speaking your truth in the moment is about embracing the now, not waiting for the ‘perfect’ time. When you trust your gut and say what you mean, you create real connections, take bolder actions, and live more authentically. Time is precious, and we don’t always get second chances to express how we feel or take that leap. It’s about being brave, trusting yourself, and seizing every opportunity before it slips away. What is holding you back? Have you ever stepped back and widened your perspective to better understand why you second-guess yourself? No really, it is that easy. So many times we act or don’t act but never question why. You aren’t a robot programmed by someone else. You have complete power and if you don’t, it’s time to take it back. Operating on instinct does not mean operating on auto-pilot. It means when you feel led to act…act. If you don’t trust yourself to take that kind of quick action then there is something there that needs our attention. Overcoming self-doubt is key to acting on instinct and truly seizing the moment. We often second-guess ourselves, waiting until we feel “ready,” but the truth is, there’s no perfect time. Self-doubt holds us back from expressing what’s in our hearts and taking bold steps forward. When you push past those doubts and trust yourself, you unlock the power to act with confidence and authenticity. It’s about realizing that your voice matters, your instincts are valid, and every moment you hesitate is a moment missed. Let’s dive into this topic so we can reach a level of trust with yourself because you’re more capable than you think. https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/whats-holding-you-back-joe-costello-e62qc/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ab7bJ2j4DDk&list=PLhW2xUEb-B-ZBONmUi1m7h10c4x_RVEeT&index=8https://www.mysaltwaterskyline.com/time-is-precious/ Building trust in yourself is about developing confidence in your abilities, decisions, and instincts. It’s a process that takes time, self-awareness, and practice. Here are some steps to help you build that self-trust:
- Keep Promises to Yourself: Start by setting small, achievable goals and following through with them. Whether it’s sticking to a daily habit or completing a task, honoring your commitments to yourself builds self-trust over time.
- Acknowledge Your Strengths: Reflect on what you’re good at. Make a list of your strengths, skills, and past accomplishments. Recognizing your capabilities reinforces the belief that you can handle future challenges.
- Learn from Mistakes, Don’t Dwell on Them: Mistakes are inevitable, but instead of beating yourself up, see them as learning opportunities. When you accept that errors are part of growth, it helps you feel more comfortable taking risks and trusting your judgment.
- Be Decisive: Practice making decisions without overanalyzing or seeking constant reassurance from others. Trusting yourself in small decisions helps you build confidence for bigger ones. Even if the outcome isn’t perfect, you’ll learn that you can handle it.
- Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself, especially during tough times. Self-criticism erodes self-trust, while self-compassion fosters a sense of security in your ability to handle whatever comes your way.
- Honor Your Values: Stay true to what matters to you. When your actions align with your core values, it reinforces your belief in yourself and gives you a clear sense of direction.
- Listen to Your Instincts: Begin trusting your gut feelings. Acting on small intuitive decisions builds a sense of self-reliance. The more you follow your instincts, the more confidence you’ll gain in their accuracy.
- Set Boundaries: Protect your energy and well-being by setting boundaries with others. This shows that you respect your own needs, reinforcing that you can rely on yourself to prioritize your well-being.
- Celebrate Progress: Recognize and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. Each time you succeed or make a positive decision, it strengthens your belief in yourself.
- Surround Yourself with Positivity: Surround yourself with people who support and believe in you. Positive reinforcement from others helps boost your self-confidence and trust in your abilities.
Building trust in yourself is about consistently showing up for yourself, learning from the journey, and practicing self-kindness. As you cultivate this self-trust, you’ll become more confident in your decisions and actions. CHALLENGE: Trust your gut, take that leap, and let those small actions build into something amazing. Stop waiting—seize the moment, follow your instincts, and watch how those every day wins turn into something life-changing. I Know YOU Can Do It!
4 SEP 2024 · SHOW NOTES: On this show…we are exploring the science behind joy and how to cultivate it as we strive to understand happiness. You might have figured out by now that it isn’t always as easy as turning that frown upside down and faking it until you make it, can involve a lot of lying and manipulation, leading to dishonesty with yourself. Finding happiness isn’t just about feeling good—it’s about living a fulfilling life. Understanding what truly makes us happy helps us navigate the ups and downs, making every day a bit brighter. By exploring the science of happiness, we can learn practical ways to cultivate joy and contentment in our lives. It’s not about chasing some perfect, blissful state; it’s about finding what really matters to us and making space for it. And when we do that, not only do we feel better, but we also become better equipped to handle whatever life throws our way. So let’s dive into what happiness really means and how we can all bring a little more of it into our lives! By now you’ve figured out, I’m a pretty positive person. But it’s a choice and not something that has always come easily. I’ve had my share of strife, complex challenges, and downright trauma but I chose not to live there. You’re right, that’s not as easy as it sounds either. To overcome and move on, I had to come face to face with any and all challenges, take personal responsibility, offer myself forgiveness, and decide to let it go in order to move on. Now that’s a journey but the learning is important and the freedom it provides, is priceless. That doesn’t mean that I don’t get down or have off days. A good 24 hour pity party can be as detoxing as a super cleanse but I don’t stay there. A therapist once said it’s ok to invite sadness in, even to let it stay awhile, but then you have to be willing to ask it to leave. It’s hard to recognize or be grateful for happiness without a bit of suffering so we will have to cover both sides of the coin. https://positivepsychology.com/happiness/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SsS8TJDN-j0https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/take-responsibility-edit-your-life-practical-ways-do-terri-kozlowski/ Joy, like other emotions, is a complex interplay of neurological, psychological, and social factors. Here’s a breakdown of the science:
- Neurology of Joy
- Dopamine Release: Joy is closely linked to the release of dopamine, a neurotransmitter that plays a significant role in our reward system. When we experience something pleasurable or rewarding, dopamine is released, making us feel good.
- Endorphins: These are the body’s natural painkillers and stress relievers. They are released during activities like exercise, laughter, or even eating certain foods, contributing to feelings of joy.
- Oxytocin: Often called the “love hormone,” oxytocin is released during social bonding activities like hugging, spending time with loved ones, or acts of kindness. It enhances feelings of connection and joy.
- Psychological Factors
- Positive Psychology: This field of psychology studies what makes life worth living. Researchers have identified key components of joy, such as gratitude, mindfulness, and optimism. Practicing these can increase our overall sense of well-being and joy.
- Flow State: Joy often arises when we’re fully engaged in an activity we enjoy, losing track of time and self-consciousness. This state, known as “flow,” is associated with deep satisfaction and happiness.
- Social and Environmental Influences
- Social Connections: Strong, positive relationships are one of the most consistent predictors of happiness. Sharing joyful moments with others amplifies our experience of joy.
- Environment: Our surroundings also play a role. Being in nature, experiencing beauty, or even living in a supportive community can boost our sense of joy.
- Evolutionary Perspective
- From an evolutionary standpoint, joy has played a critical role in human survival. Positive emotions like joy help us build social bonds, find meaning in life, and motivate us to pursue goals and engage in activities that ensure our survival and well-being.
- Cultivating Joy
- Gratitude Practice: Regularly reflecting on what you’re thankful for can increase feelings of joy.
- Mindfulness: Being present in the moment allows us to fully experience and appreciate joyful moments.
- Acts of Kindness: Doing something kind for others often leads to a “helper’s high,” a burst of joy from knowing you’ve made a positive impact.
The science behind joy reveals that it’s not just a fleeting emotion but a powerful, essential part of our well-being. By understanding and intentionally cultivating joy, we can enhance our lives and the lives of those around us. CHALLENGE: Take charge of your happiness by letting go of what no longer serves you and embracing the power of the present. Challenge yourself to rewrite your story, one filled with joy, resilience, and the belief that you deserve a life of fulfillment. I Know YOU Can Do It!
27 AUG 2024 · SHOW NOTES: On this show… we are discovering pathmakers as we honor the past while shaping the future. A pathmaker is someone who blazes a trail in uncharted territory, often breaking through barriers, challenging norms, and creating opportunities where none existed before. They are innovators, leaders, and pioneers who pave the way for others to follow, making significant contributions that leave a lasting impact on society, culture, or a specific field. Pathmakers not only achieve remarkable things in their own lives but also inspire and enable future generations to continue building on the foundation they’ve laid. So let’s take a deep dive into the journey of those who’ve come before us—those incredible individuals who’ve paved the way for the world we live in today. As we reflect on their legacies, we’ll also be thinking about our own. What kind of impact are we leaving behind? Let’s explore how we can honor the past while shaping a future that truly matters. It’s all about appreciating the pathmakers who’ve led the way and considering how we, too, can create a lasting legacy. I love this anonymous quote: “What you leave as a legacy is not what is etched in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others.” Do you feel like you’re still figuring everything out and aren’t quite ready for a recorded legacy yet? You know, off the record, so to speak. Unless your child prodigy, when do you peak in understanding and effort? Maybe you’re waiting for the Nobel peace prize and maybe you’re not sure the accumulation of your life is worthy to be memorialized but either way, you’re leaving a legacy. The things you say and do matter. They shape, form, and make an impact on those you come in contact with. The seeds you plant run deep and will likely bloom outside of your control. No pressure! You can’t rewrite history or miraculously solve the world's problems so outside of those two things, what if we just agree to start living with more intention? From today forward, we will think before we act. Think about the last impact our actions will have on those around us and beyond. Can we start there? Good…outside of that, let’s learn more. https://www.betterup.com/blog/leaving-a-legacyhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQOP-M6ruoIhttps://www.linkedin.com/pulse/living-legacy-what-why-you-need-intentional-candy-barone-cmcp-mba-phpkc/ History offers valuable lessons when we think about our own legacy, guiding us in understanding the impact we can have on the future. Here are a few key insights:
- The Power of Resilience:
- Lesson: Many historical figures faced immense challenges and adversity, yet their determination and resilience allowed them to make lasting contributions. History teaches us that perseverance in the face of difficulties can lead to enduring change.
- Application: In considering our legacy, embracing resilience can help us navigate obstacles and stay committed to our goals, knowing that challenges can lead to growth and progress.
- The Importance of Values:
- Lesson: Historical pathmakers often stood firm in their values, whether it was justice, equality, innovation, or compassion. Their legacies are often defined by their unwavering commitment to these principles.
- Application: Reflecting on our values and living them consistently can ensure that our legacy reflects what we truly believe in and stands the test of time.
- The Ripple Effect of Actions:
- Lesson: History shows that even small actions can have a profound impact. The decisions and actions of individuals often ripple out, influencing generations to come.
- Application: Recognizing that our everyday choices and actions contribute to our legacy can inspire us to act with intention, knowing that we are shaping the future in ways we may not even realize.
- The Role of Innovation:
- Lesson: Innovators in history, from scientists to artists, have shown that thinking differently and pushing boundaries can lead to groundbreaking advancements. Their legacies are often marked by the new paths they created.
- Application: Embracing creativity and innovation in our own lives can help us leave a legacy of progress, inspiring others to continue exploring and expanding what’s possible.
- The Impact of Community and Collaboration:
- Lesson: Many historical achievements were the result of collaboration and the collective efforts of communities. Movements that changed the world were often driven by groups of people working together towards a common goal.
- Application: Understanding the power of community and collaboration can encourage us to build strong relationships, work with others, and contribute to something greater than ourselves.
- The Significance of Mentorship and Influence:
- Lesson: History is full of examples where one person’s influence, mentorship, or guidance helped shape the path of another, leading to significant developments.
- Application: By mentoring and uplifting others, we can extend our legacy beyond our own achievements, empowering the next generation to carry forward our impact.
- The Legacy of Compassion and Service:
- Lesson: Figures like Mother Teresa or Nelson Mandela are remembered not just for their accomplishments but for their compassion and service to others. Their legacies are defined by the lives they touched and the changes they fostered through empathy and kindness.
- Application: Focusing on how we can positively impact others and our communities ensures that our legacy is one of compassion, leaving the world a better place for future generations.
CHALLENGE: Your legacy starts with the choices you make today—embrace resilience, live your values, and take action with purpose. Challenge yourself to make a lasting impact, knowing that the path you pave will inspire and guide future generations. I Know YOU Can Do It!
20 AUG 2024 · SHOW NOTES: On this show…we are exploring the paradox of control and how trying to control others ends up controlling you. Have you ever wondered if your well-intentioned help might actually be a bit too much? It’s easy to blur the lines between being supportive and being controlling without even realizing it. Sometimes, what we see as helping might actually be holding others back. Slippery slope? I don’t want to give you another thing to stress about but it’s easy to go from helping to controlling because our desire to see things done well or protect those we care about can lead us to overstep boundaries. What starts as genuine concern can quickly turn into micromanagement, especially when we feel responsible for the outcomes or anxious about losing control. So let’s dive into the subtle differences between helping and controlling, and explore how we can make sure our good intentions truly empower those around us. Curious to see where you stand. Let’s find out together! I always thought I was being helpful…always until I was able to get some perspective and see the difference. It’s ok if you’re not there yet, that’s the journey. The fact that you are committed to getting a better vantage point and some positive alternatives to some of life’s challenges and a HUGE first step. Remember the saying, “The road is paved with good intentions”? Well it’s actually referring to the road to hell but I think it can apply here too because it means, the difference between what someone intends to do and the outcome of their actions. Maybe you initially jumped in to help and maybe you wanted to control the situation from the start and the lines were just a blur. Let’s sharpen the focus as we figure out the difference… https://www.lovepanky.com/love-couch/better-love/controlling-vs-caringhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NaEX00K2GVQ&t=51shttps://www.gottman.com/blog/how-i-stopped-trying-to-control-my-partner-and-took-responsibility-for-my-own-happiness/ Figuring out if you’re actually being helpful or starting to be a bit controlling takes some self-reflection and thinking about your motives and how your actions affect others. Here are some ways to check yourself:
- Check Your Motives
- Ask Yourself: Why am I offering help or advice? Is it because I genuinely want to support this person, or because I feel anxious if things aren’t done my way?
- Helpful: If your intention is to empower the other person and you’re okay with the outcome, even if it’s different from what you would do.
- Controlling: If your intention is to ensure things are done according to your standards, or to alleviate your own discomfort or anxiety.
- Consider the Other Person’s Autonomy
- Ask Yourself: Am I allowing the other person to make their own choices, or am I trying to steer them toward what I think is best?
- Helpful: If you respect the other person’s right to make their own decisions, even if they choose differently than you would.
- Controlling: If you’re pushing your agenda, making decisions for them, or not giving them the space to make their own choices.
- Observe Their Response
- Ask Yourself: How does the other person react when I offer help or advice? Do they seem appreciative, or do they appear uncomfortable or resistant?
- Helpful: If the other person feels supported, empowered, and grateful for your input.
- Controlling: If they seem frustrated, distant, or resistant, it could be a sign that they feel smothered or undermined.
- Reflect on Your Emotional State
- Ask Yourself: How do I feel if the person doesn’t take my advice or doesn’t accept my help?
- Helpful: If you’re at peace with their decision and don’t feel the need to push further.
- Controlling: If you feel irritated, anxious, or disappointed when they don’t follow your guidance.
- Assess the Frequency and Context
- Ask Yourself: How often am I stepping in to offer help or advice? Is it in situations where it’s truly needed, or am I doing it constantly, even when not asked?
- Helpful: If you offer help selectively, in situations where it’s genuinely needed, and when the other person asks for it.
- Controlling: If you find yourself frequently intervening, even in situations where the other person is capable or didn’t ask for assistance.
- Solicit Feedback
- Ask Them: How do you feel about the help or advice I’m giving? Do you feel supported or overwhelmed?
- Helpful: If they express that your support is valuable and that they feel empowered.
- Controlling: If they indicate that your help feels more like pressure or that they feel micromanaged.
- Evaluate the Balance of Power
- Ask Yourself: Am I trying to maintain control or power in this situation, or am I empowering the other person?
- Helpful: If your actions encourage the other person’s growth, independence, and self-confidence.
- Controlling: If your actions are more about maintaining control or ensuring things go your way.
CHALLENGE: Recognize where your well-meaning actions might be crossing into control and take steps to shift toward empowering others. By embracing true personal responsibility, you’ll build stronger, more trusting relationships that allow everyone to thrive. I Know YOU Can Do It!
13 AUG 2024 · SHOW NOTES: On this show….we are peeling back the layers to build more authentic connections amid this tech-driven world. Got a lot of “friends” but still feel lonely? Receiving a lot of “likes” and “loves” but still feeling unheard? Take a minute and count your authentic connections. You know the ones who have your back and you have theirs. You call them and they show up to celebrate or get you back on your feet. They are priceless and they didn’t happen by accident. In today’s tech-heavy world, it’s easy to feel like we’re buried under layers of screens and gadgets, which can make real, authentic connections seem out of reach. But here’s the good news: peeling back those layers isn’t as hard as it sounds! Let’s dive into how to cut through the digital noise and build genuine relationships that enrich our lives. Having a tight inner circle is critical and yes, exclusive. I have friends who have been with me through thick and thin. They have loved me even through the unlovable stages of my life. And let me tell you, there were many. They are gold and unshakable. I hope I’m half the friend to them as they are to me. Woodrow Wilson said, “Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together." If that’s true, shouldn’t we take it super seriously? That means effort, being strategic, and adopting a give/get approach. https://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/Pages/Circles-of-Friendship.aspxhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YmVpwXH4jhAhttps://www.friendshipwithintention.com/blog/5-love-languages-for-friendships#:~:text=It Don’t beat yourself up and don’t let yourself get overwhelmed. Set realistic expectations and stop overcommitting. You can only do what you can do but you can do better. Here are five actionable steps you can take today to become a better friend:
- Reach Out Thoughtfully: Take a moment to check in with a friend. A simple message, call, or even a handwritten note to express that you’re thinking of them can make a big difference. Ask how they’re doing and show genuine interest in their life.
- Offer Support: Be proactive in offering help or support. Whether it’s lending a listening ear, helping with a task, or providing encouragement, showing that you’re there for your friends in times of need strengthens your bond.
- Show Appreciation: Let your friends know how much you value them. Compliment them, express gratitude for their presence in your life, or acknowledge their positive impact on you. Small acts of appreciation can go a long way.
- Be Present: Focus on being fully present when you spend time together. Put away distractions like your phone and engage in meaningful conversations. Quality time spent together deepens the connection.
- Practice Empathy: Try to understand things from your friend’s perspective. Listen actively and offer empathy and understanding, especially when they’re going through challenging times. Validating their feelings and experiences builds trust and strengthens the friendship.
CHALLENGE: Take a proactive step to strengthen your friendships by reaching out, offering support, and being fully present. Challenge yourself to show genuine appreciation and empathy, and watch how these small actions can lead to deeper, more meaningful connections. I Know YOU Can Do It!
6 AUG 2024 · SHOW NOTES: On this show…we are searching for a balanced life as we aim to find fulfillment beyond the daily grind. All work and no play may have you out of alignment and in a rut. All for you and nothing for them may have you starving your generous nature. An uneven or unstable footing can cause you to struggle to level your intentions for a calmer life that provides more meaning. Feeling out of balance is something many of us face, especially when we get caught up in one aspect of our lives—be it career, family, friends, our spirituality, or personal joy—while neglecting others. But here’s the good news: recognizing this imbalance is the first step to fixing it. Take a step back, breathe, and look at the bigger picture. What areas are thriving, and which ones need more love and attention? Let’s create a plan to nurture all parts of your life. Maybe it’s setting aside time for family dinners, scheduling regular self-care activities, or finding moments for spiritual reflection. Remember, it’s all about small, consistent steps to bring harmony and fulfillment back into your life. You’ve got this! Balance is an even distribution of weight enabling someone or something to remain upright and steady. It’s a condition where different elements are equal or in the correct proportions. Sounds a lot like harmony, right? We often strive to give all aspects of our lives equal effort, but is that really realistic? Not always. Personal seasons bring natural shifts in our goals and outcomes. Sometimes, one area needs your undivided attention, and everything else has to wait. These are just seasons in your life, and they will course-correct if you keep things in perspective. Embrace the ebb and flow, and trust that balance will find its way back. Seeing the bigger picture isn’t always easy, so have a little patience with yourself. Realizing the need for a better vantage point to accurately evaluate needs versus desires is a crucial step toward finding balance. Take your time, reflect, and be kind to yourself as you navigate this journey. https://insideoutmastery.com/feeling-unfulfilled/https://jackcanfield.com/blog/finding-balance-life/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YquHqzw3agg At this stage, asking yourself the right questions can provide clarity and insight. Here are some questions to consider:
- Prioritization and Time Allocation:
- Am I dedicating enough time to each important aspect of my life (e.g., career, family, health, hobbies)?
- Which areas of my life are receiving too much attention, and which are being neglected?
- Personal Fulfillment:
- What activities or aspects of my life bring me the most joy and satisfaction?
- Am I making time for the things that genuinely make me happy?
- Health and Well-being:
- How am I taking care of my physical, emotional, and mental health?
- Am I getting enough rest, exercise, and healthy nutrition?
- Relationships:
- Are my relationships with family, friends, and colleagues positive and fulfilling?
- Do I make enough time for social interactions and nurturing my relationships?
- Career and Personal Growth:
- Am I satisfied with my career progress and professional growth?
- Do I feel challenged and motivated by my work?
- Stress and Burnout:
- Do I often feel overwhelmed or stressed?
- What steps am I taking to manage stress and prevent burnout?
- Purpose and Goals:
- Do I have clear short-term and long-term goals for various areas of my life?
- Am I aligning my daily activities with my overall life purpose and goals?
- Flexibility and Adaptability:
- How well do I adapt to changes and unexpected situations in my life?
- Am I flexible in adjusting my plans and priorities when necessary?
- Self-Reflection and Growth:
- Do I regularly take time to reflect on my life and make necessary adjustments?
- What have I learned about myself recently, and how can I apply that knowledge?
- Balance and Harmony:
- Do I feel a sense of balance and harmony in my life, or is something off-kilter?
- What small changes can I make to bring more balance and harmony into my daily routine?
- Fulfillment and Meaning:
- Do I feel fulfilled in my daily life, or is something missing?
- What steps can I take to add more meaning and fulfillment to my life?
- Boundaries:
- Am I setting healthy boundaries to protect my time and energy?
- Do I know when to say no to avoid overcommitting myself?
Reflecting on these questions can help you gain a deeper understanding of where you stand and what adjustments might be needed to achieve a more balanced and fulfilling life. CHALLENGE: Take a step back and evaluate the balance in your life—identify areas that need more attention and make a plan to nurture them. Embrace the journey towards harmony, knowing that small, consistent steps can lead to a more fulfilling and well-rounded life. I Know YOU Can Do It!
31 JUL 2024 · SHOW NOTES: On this show…we’re getting some relief as we navigate the fine line between pressure and stress. Mind overwhelmed, heart in a vice, trying to catch your breath as you process all you have to learn, understand, do, and deliver? Looking for something or anything to give you a temporary reprieve? Hold up, you don’t have to live this way. Instead of checking out or numbing up, let’s try to power through looking for a clear understanding of what’s going on and adopting positive alternatives to chart a more productive path. Figuring out the difference between pressure and stress can help you turn challenges into motivation instead of feeling overwhelmed. Once you get it, you’ll handle tough situations like a pro while keeping your cool! "The truth is that stress doesn't come from your boss, your kids, your spouse, traffic jams, health challenges, or other circumstances. It comes from your thoughts about your circumstances." - Andrew Bernstein https://www.mindtools.com/asq0vw2/coping-under-pressurehttps://www.helpguide.org/articles/stress/stress-management.htmhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-t1Z5-oPtU Stress can really impact those around you, especially kids. Here’s how: Emotional Contagion: Kids are super perceptive and can easily pick up on your emotions. If you’re stressed, they’ll likely feel anxious or worried too. Behavioral Influence: When you’re stressed, you might be more irritable or less patient. This can affect how you interact with kids, leading to strained relationships and a negative vibe. Role Modeling: Kids look up to adults as examples. If they see you handling stress poorly, they might pick up those same habits. On the flip side, showing healthy ways to manage stress can teach them good coping skills. Communication Breakdown: Stress can make it harder to communicate well. This can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts, leaving kids feeling unsupported. Creating a Tense Environment: Being constantly stressed can make the atmosphere tense and uneasy. Kids do best in a calm and supportive environment, and too much stress can get in the way of their emotional growth. Impact on Learning and Development: Your stress can affect a child’s ability to concentrate and learn. A stressful environment can disrupt their routine and make it harder for them to feel secure and focused. So, managing your stress not only helps you but also creates a better, more supportive environment for kids to thrive in. CHALLENGE: Navigating the fine line between pressure and stress empowers you to turn challenges into opportunities for growth while maintaining your well-being. Embrace effective strategies and a positive mindset to stay motivated and resilient in the face of life’s demands. I Know YOU Can Do It!
24 JUL 2024 · SHOW NOTES: On this show…we are unlocking the basics as we explore simple life skills everyone needs but often overlooks. In today’s fast-paced world, it’s no surprise that many people struggle with basic life skills. Between the rise of technology and the hustle of modern life, skills like cooking, budgeting, and effective communication often fall by the wayside. But fear not! By taking small, intentional steps, we can all brush up on these essential skills. Think of it as a fun, ongoing learning adventure—whether it’s whipping up a new recipe, setting up a simple budget, or mastering the art of active listening. Let’s embrace the journey together and support each other in becoming more well-rounded and capable individuals! So let’s address some simple life skills that shouldn’t be overlooked. Here are just a few we will explore: Time Management:
- Prioritizing tasks and setting realistic deadlines.
- Avoiding procrastination and effectively scheduling their time.
Effective Communication:
- Listening actively and empathetically.
- Expressing thoughts and feelings clearly and assertively without being aggressive.
Emotional Regulation:
- Managing stress and anxiety in healthy ways.
- Recognizing and processing emotions effectively.
Problem-Solving:
- Identifying problems and breaking them down into manageable parts.
- Generating and evaluating potential solutions.
Relationship Building:
- Developing and maintaining healthy relationships.
- Understanding the importance of boundaries and mutual respect.
Critical Thinking:
- Evaluating information critically and making informed decisions.
- Recognizing biases and logical fallacies.
Negotiation Skills:
- Negotiating effectively in personal and professional settings.
- Understanding the importance of compromise and finding win-win solutions.
Organizational Skills:
- Keeping personal and professional spaces organized.
- Developing systems for managing information and tasks efficiently.
Adaptability:
- Adjusting to new situations and changes with flexibility.
- Embracing change as an opportunity for growth rather than a threat.
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/unveiling-missing-link-craving-life-skills-high-tech-bhattacharya-sfzac/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KX5fApDbiLUhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/navigating-the-new-workplace/202304/how-to-begin-boosting-your-soft-skills CHALLENGE: Unlocking basic life skills can elevate your daily journey and amplify your confidence. Begin today by embracing small, practical steps to master these essentials, and witness how they empower you to thrive and shine in any situation. I Know YOU Can Do It!
16 JUL 2024 · SHOW NOTES: On this show…we are looking for a little harmony in our hustle as we master work, life, and personal growth. Ever feel like you’re juggling flaming swords while riding a unicycle? Why do some people appear to be killing it on the highwire of life while the rest of us feel like a low-budget sideshow act? Guess what? You would probably be shocked to learn that some see you as the put-together and confident ringmaster running it all with precision. Before you scoff, remember, that life isn’t as it always appears. But hey, we’re all in this circus together! It’s all about finding that sweet spot where you’re crushing your goals without losing yourself in the chaos. According to Hubstaff.com, 48% of workers call themselves “workaholics”, 66% skip one meal per day due to working hours, and 60% of US workers say they don't have boundaries between work responsibilities and life. Ouch. Let’s flip the script on burnout and turn this balancing act into a dance. https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/from-work-life-balance-harmony-new-path-chibs/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lzQRUZHc5eo Recognizing when your life is out of harmony between work and personal growth can help you get back on track. Here are some warning signs to watch out for:
- Constant Fatigue: Feeling perpetually exhausted, even after a full night’s sleep, is a red flag that your balance might be off.
- Increased Irritability: If you’re snapping at people or feeling unusually frustrated, it could be a sign that stress is taking over.
- Lack of Enthusiasm: Losing interest in activities you used to enjoy or feeling indifferent about work and personal projects can indicate burnout.
- Neglected Self-Care: Skipping meals, neglecting exercise, or ignoring mental health can be signs that you’re too consumed by work.
- Declining Performance: Struggling to meet deadlines, making more mistakes, or experiencing a drop in productivity can signal that your balance is disrupted.
- Strained Relationships: If friends and family are noticing your absence or you’re feeling disconnected from your loved ones, it’s a strong indicator that work is overshadowing your personal life.
- Feeling Overwhelmed: A constant sense of being overwhelmed or unable to cope with your responsibilities is a clear sign of imbalance.
CHALLENGE: Achieving harmony between life, work, and personal growth is your key to unlocking a life of joy and fulfillment. Embrace self-care, set clear priorities, and watch as you thrive both professionally and personally, creating a balanced and inspired life where anything is possible. I Know YOU Can Do It!
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