We’ve all seen couples fighting on television talk shows, bringing up all the dirt and attacking one another, even shoving and pulling hair. It’s drama, and maybe brings more viewers and more money to networks. But focusing on the negative, staying in the past, never forgiving or looking at what has worked in the relationship will only increase the number of divorces. The new therapy for couples is about focusing on the good, focusing on what originally attracted each person, what has worked ...