Today we discuss our experiences with dating as mixed black woman; we talk about some of the challenges we have faced, as well as the healthy aspects of our past and present relationships. Resources mentioned: Beyond Survival edited by Ejeris Dixon and Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha; Pleasure Activism by adrienne maree brown; and See No Stranger: A Memoir and Manifesto of Revolutionary Love by Valarie Kaur.