How to break free from these constraints and create a life that aligns with our personal goals and desires.

Have you ever felt the pressure to do certain things that you're supposed to be doing at this stage in your life? For example, many people around the age of 30 start feeling the pressure to find a partner and settle down to start a family. Or, those who have just finished college may feel the need to immediately secure a stable job in order to build their future. It can seem like our lives are predetermined and dictated by someone else. It's as if we have a checklist that we're supposed to tick off as we achieve certain things, and once we do, our attention is directed towards the next item on the list.

But today, I want to challenge this way of thinking and encourage you to ask yourself the necessary questions to discover how you truly want your life to look. First, I want to ask you, what does your ideal life look like? Give yourself the opportunity to dream and don't let logic hold you back. Think about the kind of job you dream of having, where you would like to live, who you want to be with, and even if you truly want to have children. Bring to mind all of those dreams that have ever visited you and imagine how your life would look if you made them a reality. How does that make you feel?

I'm sure you feel incredible, and that's because when we connect with what we truly want, our bodies and hearts respond in a beautiful way. That's where the power of creating your own life and pursuing your own dreams lies. It may be a little scary to step out of the mold that's been created for us, but if we stay within it, we're only limiting our growth and even our happiness.

Let me give you another example, there are many families where the majority choose to pursue the same career path. Perhaps many years ago, the great-grandfather started a law firm and all the men in the family have followed in his footsteps. So, when it's time for you to choose a career, you may feel a lot of pressure from your family to study law. I can understand that the idea of following tradition can be quite tempting. But what if your passion lies in something completely different, such as art or music? It's important to remember that you are in control of your own life and you have the power to make choices that align with your personal goals and desires.

I hope this episode has helped you to think about the societal expectations and pressures that may be holding you back from creating the life you truly want. Remember to listen to your heart and pursue your own dreams, not someone else's. Don't forget to subscribe, activate the bell, and listen to this episode again when necessary. And remember, you are in control of your own life, so make choices that align with your personal goals and desires.