Sometimes we can be friends with others and not having strings attached. However, there are times that we are friends with our ex-spouses, ex-lovers etc for the sake of our children is that possible?. Yes, I can testify that it is because I am friends with my ex for the sake of my two sons. Tune in and learn when it is appropriate to be friends with your for your kids and when not okay. It is not okay if sexual abuse, domestic violence or any harm to s person.