Hi SWJ and other host I appreciated your enlightening me to certain aspects of attraction between men and women. Although I heard one overall sticking point and that's what most times surfaces as a hard subject between men and women and it's communication! When I meet women and men now I make sure to inform them that I desire friendship initially before concluding we're on the same page and central in both genders is ( not choose to be) taking ample ( depending on individuals abilities) skill sets to communicate our baseline of necessities from another gender as it pertains to our own personal interests in gender equality and knowledge of our value system and relating to other people. COMMUNICATION is paramount