A look into what we can learn from NDE's
Here's one account
The minute I stepped out of form and saw “behind the veil” or rather saw that my spirit form continued after death, I was in a sense awakened.  I comprehended many things through telepathic communication and simply being in the very visible presence of angels/light beings whose presence I had never seriously considered.
No matter what happened in my life after my NDE, I could never brush away this knowledge.  I could not unlearn what I knew to be true; there is much more to reality than the material world.  In fact, from that vantage point, the earth experience appears to be a place where we choose to forget our connection to divinity and focus on our individuality.  In that darkness, some of us wake up and realize there is more to life than struggling.  A NDE shows us clearly that a growing connection to the light of God is what is most important.
What is true in the spiritual realm is goodness, mercy, and love.  I took none of the pain of my life with me, and pain and struggle didn’t seem to be the point or worth remembering.  Love and kindness to others seemed to be the main point of existence.
 
Let grief be a prayer,
that heals your broken heart
 a celebration of the love.
with memories that never part
for love lives on forever
a candle lit so bright it shimmers
throughout your life it whispers
 
with a blessed offering it delivers ,
 there’ are some connections
that are so hard to define ,
so we honor them deep inside
 
and let their life inspire us
Let your grief be a prayer
that heals your heart
 Spirits gift of love
that never parts
 
honor that soul connection
a rainbow of recognition
that forever is a benediction
that transforms us as we wish it