Dear Steve,

Some time ago, I met a man and we became close friends. I was married at the time and we moved out of the state, but the marriage eventually fizzled, we got divorced and I came back home with my son. It’s been a long time since I’ve really seen the man I met all those years ago, but we reconnected recently and now I don’t think there’s the same connection. He doesn’t return my calls, he won’t talk to me anymore on text messages… so what the hell, did I do something wrong?

Sincerely,
Aged and Confused