Calisa is anticipating her first prenatal doctor’s visit, which she is sure to be as magical as the movies promise.

She fully expects that she and her boyfriend will be ushered into a private room by a kindly OB who will reveal my itty bitty baby-to-be on an ultrasound screen and give the couple all kinds of reassuring advice before sending them home with an armful of pamphlets and some free prenatal vitamins.