We don't have to pander nor do we have to accept everyone's position in order for us to have a conversation about what is good or bad. Christians need to stop being so worried about what the world thinks of them and just say what the bible says.
We need to stop choosing one thing with one group and then another with a difference group or setting.
Christians also need to be able to think logically and yet I find that this skillset is not being cultivated.

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[1:42]
You know what the Bible says and stands for, but it's shaking you up and tearing you apart. We've all been in that situation before. We have friends who aren't Christians or don't believe what we do. But we can't reach our goals if we start to be torn between ideas because we're trying to ease pressure in a situation that's already tense.
[3:45]
We need to take a firm stand when it comes to morality and ethics. When you, as a Christian, don't have the guts, passion, and sense of urgency. My morality and beliefs are not based on a set of rules, nor did I make them up on my own. Because I'm a Christian, my morals and ethics are based on what the Bible says.
[7:29]
But as a Christian, I shouldn't be able to tell you that I shouldn't tell you that you should already know this. Still, some don't because we think it's the right thing to do or because we're trying to be nice. We don't know what to think.
[9:17]
As a Christian, you must be completely and utterly subjected to whether you are willing to base your eternal being. Eternity based on what some individuals saying? Don't do that. Because we think it's mean, it's not standing up for truth. Allowing someone to live in a delusion is mean.
[15:24]
To put it bluntly, we don't fight for justice. At the time, we really should. It's not right to say that. Must we act as if we're shocked? That our worldview is incompatible with reality.
[16:00]
The world gets all arms about it when we vote our convictions and stand up for what we think is right according to biblical principles. Should we be shocked? Should we be quiet? Since we are now free to do so? Should we bury it and try to treat it there? To the point where we're being persecuted for being persecuted? There is no doubt that we are the target. Does it imply we have to go into hiding? Does that imply we should act in a way that the world accepts so we can avoid being persecuted?
[16:10]
What if we end up being the target of some attack? The question then becomes whether you're willing to spend all of the eternity living that way. Are you going to stake your eternal destiny on what some preacher had to say about fairness in the world?
[18:01]
There's no room for ambivalence among those who are considering it. If we reject all of that in favor of accepting the world's view, Daniel has another question for you: Are you willing to build your foundation of eternity on the world's view?