Do you want to have more good male friends? So many men are isolated and alone when they hit difficult times in their life and relationships and it's such a shame because it really doesn't have to be this way.

"Hey buddy, I was driving around today and you just popped into my head. Seriously. It was out of the blue and it made me wonder how you're doing. What's new with you lately? And don't just tell me you're "fine". I've been busy being busy and that's getting old. I'd like to get together for lunch next Friday at the pub and catch up with you. If you're open, how does noon sound? Miss you, brother."

I don't know about you, but when I get an unexpected text message or email like that from someone it just feels good.

Sometimes I feel guilty because I feel that people sometimes reach out to me more than I reach out to them.

I want to be a better friend. And I want to make sure I have a collection of high quality men in my circle.

If the old saying is true..."We are the average of the 5 people we spend the most time with"...then who are you planning to spend time with?

For many years I would simply end up hanging out with husbands of my wife's girlfriends. Or I would just spend a lot of time alone.

Here's what I think is a MUCH better mindset.

If we want more good male friends in our life...we must learn how to be a good male friend.

I'm in England again to be with my buddy Dan Dore for some work...and little "beer and pie". We talk more about being a better friend in this video.
It's very simple...but not easy.

There is nothing complicated about this message...but I know how damn hard it is to be consistent.

* We wonder if we're bothering people.

* We assume they have better things to do than talk with us.

* We (this means ME) get lazy as hell and believe it's easier to just be alone.

Let's start out slowly. Pick ONE of the ideas below and do it in the next 24 hours. (Or make one up of your own) Reply to this email to tell me if you did it.

Important: We don't care what response you get. It's your effort that matters. GIVE one of these away today.

Hey mom (or wife), I don't when I last told you how much I love you and how much I appreciate you. So, here it is. I love you and appreciate more than you know!

Hey bro, this cartoon cracked me up. I thought you would like it. You're the only person in my life who laughs at this stuff like I do. I hope you're doing well. I miss you.

Hey (friend name), I'm dying to get out of the house and go (name the place/activity). I'd love it if you would join me so we can catch up with each other. I appreciate hanging out with you, man.

I know! Simple...but not easy.

What will they think? What will they say? How will I look?

Who gives a sh*t?

When we want to reach out, we do.

When we want to be a friend, we do.

And when we want to express appreciation, we just do.

No pressure. No apologies. No expectations.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.

We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.

It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.

Most men don't.

They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money.

They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.

But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.

You can only improve your inside game with other men.

We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.

Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/

If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb:
https://howtodefusethedivorcebomb.com/

What if this next year everything changed for you?

That's what we want for you brother,

We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/