3 MAY 2024 · WE HAVE A NEW SEGMENT, AND THIS IS ACTUALLY THE FIRST OF THREE THAT WE'RE ROLLING OUT! WE PRESENT TO YOU "TSFU INTERVIEWS..."! This is a new segment where Ash, Fallon and friend of the podcast Chauntee Pitts will interview survivors, authors and all sorts of other incredible guests! In this first conversation, Ash and https://www.shellysnowpordea.com/ discuss Shelly's new book, 'https://www.amazon.com/Cheating-Wife-Shelly-Snow-Pordea/dp/1962417018,' which explores the themes of abuse, control, and the patriarchy within the context of a fictional story. They also touch on their own experiences with religious cults and the importance of raising awareness about the treatment of women within these systems. Shelly emphasizes the need for informed consent and proper training for counselors within religious organizations. The conversation highlights the importance of challenging societal norms and promoting empathy and understanding. Ash and Shelly also discuss the harmful messages and beliefs perpetuated by religious institutions, particularly regarding gender roles and sexuality. They explore the damaging effects of the patriarchy and the pressure it puts on both men and women. Shelly shares her personal experiences growing up in a strict religious environment and how it influenced her writing. They also touch on the importance of finding a safe and supportive community and the need to ask questions and challenge dogma. ✨https://www.patreon.com/TSFU 🕸️Visit That's So Fcked Up's Website: https://tsfuthepodcast.com/ 🎉Support our work and get all kinds of nifty perks: https://www.patreon.com/TSFU ☕️Buy us a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tsfuthepodcast 📲Subscribe to our podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-so-fcked-up/id1508752329 🎧or Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2zo86q0aYvNSg8prn1k73N?si=590fae149eb24218 📸Follow TSFU on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tsfuthepodcast/ 🩷Follow Ash on IG: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyloverichards/ 👾Join our Discord community: https://discord.gg/c2HwBUDsUx

29 APR 2024 · Hi friends! This episode is a hodgepodge of updates around our mental health, Ash's recent lapse in sobriety and why she's glad she's not in AA, and what's happening on TSFU in the coming weeks. We've got a special interview and Patrons are getting a brand-spanking new episode of Ash Learns the Bible! Ash also kicks off the show telling Fallon about a problematic singer that she recently discovered on the interwebs. Let us know if you're interested in more content like that, Ash is into it and wondering if y'all are on the same train. Please reach out and let us know! And as promised, we've provided some mental health and addiction resources below. Mental health and addiction resources: - https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline - https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/find-help - https://dialecticalbehaviortherapy.com/ - I've personally found DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy) to be very helpful for my mental health and sobriety. It's about learning and utilizing skills including mindfulness, interpersonal effectiveness, emotion regulation and distress tolerance. - https://thesatanictemple.com/pages/sober-faction - I don't have personal experience with this group but its come highly recommended - https://smartrecovery.org/ - I don't have personal experience with this group but its come highly recommended - https://alcohol.org/alcoholics-anonymous/alternatives-to-the-aa-approach/ - I have not tried or verified all of the groups on this page - https://www.oarhealth.com/resources/alternatives-to-aa-the-many-paths-to-sobriety-or-semi-sobriety - I have not tried or verified all of the treatment suggestions on this page, but it's a lot of useful information ✨https://www.patreon.com/TSFU 🕸️Visit That's So Fcked Up's Website: https://tsfuthepodcast.com/ 🎉Support our work and get all kinds of nifty perks: https://www.patreon.com/TSFU ☕️Buy us a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tsfuthepodcast 📲Subscribe to our podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-so-fcked-up/id1508752329 🎧or Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2zo86q0aYvNSg8prn1k73N?si=590fae149eb24218 📸Follow TSFU on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tsfuthepodcast/ 🩷Follow Ash on IG: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyloverichards/ 👾Join our Discord community: https://discord.gg/c2HwBUDsUx

28 APR 2024 · Note: this episode originally aired in September 2021. Chad Daybell is currently on trial and the episode starts with an update of what's happened since our original episode aired. Cam covered the story of Lori Vallow and her fifth husband Chad Daybell, and the disappearance of several of those around them. Daybell is the author of several Doomsday books and was the leader of a small cult, of which Lori was a devout follower.  When Lori started to refer to her children, Tylee (16), and JJ (7), as zombies people began to worry a little, but not too much. Once no one could find or speak to the children, and Lori gave conflicting stories of their whereabouts, for six months, she was finally arrested in February of 2020. The story leading up to the disappearance of Tylee and JJ, and the elopement and subsequent arrest of Vallow and Daybell in Hawaii, is stranger than fiction. ✨https://www.patreon.com/TSFU 🕸️Visit That's So Fcked Up's Website: https://tsfuthepodcast.com/ 🎉Support our work and get all kinds of nifty perks: https://www.patreon.com/TSFU ☕️Buy us a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tsfuthepodcast 📲Subscribe to our podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-so-fcked-up/id1508752329 🎧or Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2zo86q0aYvNSg8prn1k73N?si=590fae149eb24218 📸Follow TSFU on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tsfuthepodcast/ 🩷Follow Ash on IG: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyloverichards/ 👾Join our Discord community: https://discord.gg/c2HwBUDsUx

20 APR 2024 · Happy Saturday friends! This week's episode is a bit late because there's so much up to date info in it! OJ is dead, as most of you probably know. Ash gives the deets surrounding his death. If you'd like to hear our previous episode on the murders of Nicole Brown Simpson and Ron Goldman, that episode is available exclusively to Patrons https://www.patreon.com/TSFU Netflix's Baby Reindeer is a phenomenal show that Ash tells Fallon a bit about and highly recommends! Watch https://www.netflix.com/title/81219887. The gals discuss the important fact that more awareness is finally being brought to male victims and stalking cases. You can find our "Lover, Stalker, Killer" episode that they refer to https://www.spreaker.com/episode/tsfu-ep-145-lover-stalker-killer-a-very-macabre-love-triangle--58745325. And at the end, our non-Patron friends get a little taste of this week's TSFU Presents episode that Patrons got on Tuesday! https://www.patreon.com/TSFU 🕸️Visit That's So Fcked Up's Website: https://tsfuthepodcast.com/ 🎉Support our work and get all kinds of nifty perks: https://www.patreon.com/TSFU ☕️Buy us a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tsfuthepodcast 📲Subscribe to our podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-so-fcked-up/id1508752329 🎧or Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2zo86q0aYvNSg8prn1k73N?si=590fae149eb24218 📸Follow TSFU on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tsfuthepodcast/ 🩷Follow Ash on IG: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyloverichards/ 👾Join our Discord community: https://discord.gg/c2HwBUDsUx -Audio editing by Gaytrice Perdue and Dallas Hernandez. -Sources: - https://www.cbsnews.com/news/oj-simpson-death-lawyer-end-came-quickly/ - https://time.com/6967483/baby-reindeer-netflix-true-story/

17 APR 2024 · Note: This episode originally aired in December 2022. There has been a recent resurgence of talk about the Synanon organization, thanks in part to documentaries released on Max and Paramount+. So we decided to reach back to December 2022 for a re-release of our Synanon episode. Synanon started out as an alternative to AA, a rehab program for "dope fiends", but quickly turned into a sinister and deadly cult. Synanon was also the basis for many of the programs that we see today in the TTI (troubled teen industry). In this special bonus episode, Ash is joined by badass survivor Jen Carole, whose parents were murdered by Josef DeAngelo aka the Golden State Killer. Jen grew up during the 60s and 70s in Southern California, when are where Synanon began. ✨https://www.patreon.com/TSFU 🕸️Visit That's So Fcked Up's Website: https://tsfuthepodcast.com/ 🎉Support our work and get all kinds of nifty perks: https://www.patreon.com/TSFU ☕️Buy us a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tsfuthepodcast 📲Subscribe to our podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-so-fcked-up/id1508752329 🎧or Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2zo86q0aYvNSg8prn1k73N?si=590fae149eb24218 📸Follow TSFU on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tsfuthepodcast/ 🩷Follow Ash on IG: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyloverichards/ 👾Join our Discord community: https://discord.gg/c2HwBUDsUx -Audio Editing by Nicole Peek.

12 APR 2024 · Where do we even start with "Dr." flipping Phil. He's not a licensed anything, accept for a-hole, and hasn't been for years. He's known for berating and being abusive towards guests, enabling victims of addiction, exploiting mental illness, and maybe best of all, sending multiple kids to Troubled Teen institutions. ✨https://www.patreon.com/TSFU 🕸️Visit That's So Fcked Up's Website: https://tsfuthepodcast.com/ 🎉Support our work and get all kinds of nifty perks: https://www.patreon.com/TSFU ☕️Buy us a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tsfuthepodcast 📲Subscribe to our podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-so-fcked-up/id1508752329 🎧or Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2zo86q0aYvNSg8prn1k73N?si=590fae149eb24218 📸Follow TSFU on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tsfuthepodcast/ 🩷Follow Ash on IG: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyloverichards/ 👾Join our Discord community: https://discord.gg/c2HwBUDsUx -Research by Erin Collins. -Audio Editing by Dallas Hernandez. -Sources: - https://choicesseminars.com/ - https://www.courtroomsciences.com/ - https://www.meritstreetmedia.com/ - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phil_McGraw - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Doctors_(talk_show) - https://www.drphil.com/ - https://www.turnaboutranch.com/ - https://www.texastribune.org/2018/01/10/time-oprah-winfrey-beefed-texas-cattle-industry/ - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OyfycZcHgFA - https://www.nickiswift.com/1421397/x-times-dr-phil-sued-by-former-tv-guests/ - https://www.today.com/popculture/10-5m-settlement-dr-phil-diet-plan-suit-wbna15014778 - https://www.breakingcodesilence.org/turn-about-ranch/ - https://www.complex.com/pop-culture/a/karla-rodriguez/bhad-bhabie-dr-phil-turn-about-ranch-accusations-explainer - https://casetext.com/case/mahaffa-v-mcgraw - https://stage29.tv/#shows - https://theweek.com/articles/515453/did-dr-phil-far - https://www.nickiswift.com/722495/how-dr-phil-got-involved-in-the-natalee-holloway-case/ - https://www.google.com/search?q=turnabout+ranch+reviews&oq=turnabout+ranch+reviews&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOTIJCAEQABgKGIAEMgkIAhAAGAoYgAQyCAgDEAAYFhgeMg0IBBAAGIYDGIAEGIoFMg0IBRAAGIYDGIAEGIoF0gEINDg5NWowajSoAgCwAgA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8#lrd=0x873591c559274767:0x2438180103575224,1

9 APR 2024 · Have you seen the colorful ads enticing you to come experience "China before Communism" through the art of song and dance at a Shen Yun performance? What about the far-right wing newspaper "The Epoch Times" that preaches misogynistic, racist, homophobic and prejudiced views? They're both owned by the dangerous cult of Falun Gong which Ash tells Caitlyn and Lindsey about this week! Caitlyn co-hosts https://www.pnwhauntsandhomicides.com/, a podcast about true crime, the paranormal, and all kinds of spooky sh*t in the Pacific Northwest! Lindsey is the co-host of https://www.yeoldecrimepodcast.com/, a podcast about spooky, strange, and surreal stories of the past. Support your local indie podcaster and check them both out today, wherever you listen to podcasts! ✨https://www.patreon.com/TSFU 🕸️Visit That's So Fcked Up's Website: https://tsfuthepodcast.com/ 🎉Support our work and get all kinds of nifty perks: https://www.patreon.com/TSFU ☕️Buy us a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tsfuthepodcast 📲Subscribe to our podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-so-fcked-up/id1508752329 🎧or Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2zo86q0aYvNSg8prn1k73N?si=590fae149eb24218 📸Follow TSFU on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tsfuthepodcast/ 🩷Follow Ash on IG: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyloverichards/ 👾Join our Discord community: https://discord.gg/c2HwBUDsUx -Audio editing by Dallas Hernandez. -Research by Kristen Jones. -Sources: - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shen_Yun  - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Falun_Gong - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Qigong  - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heterodoxy  - https://thehill.com/homenews/nexstar_media_wire/4477070-shen-yun-advertises-5000-years-of history-in-dance-why-does-china-call-it-an-anti-society-cult/  - https://www.theguardian.com/news/2017/dec/12/shen-yun-falun-gong-traditional-chinese-dance troupe-china-doesnt-want-you-to-see  - https://arbiteronline.com/2023/03/14/a-look-into-the-mysterious-roots-of-shen-yun-is-the-morriso n-center-unknowingly-hosting-a-front-for-a-cult/  - https://faroutmagazine.co.uk/cult-shen-yun-dance-troupe/  - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Teachings_of_Falun_Gong#Controversies  - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dragon_Springs  - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Epoch_Times - https://www.cotton.senate.gov/news/press-releases/cotton-coons-colleagues-introduce-bill-to-hold-china-accountable-for-forced-organ-harvesting#:~:text=Experts%20estimate%20that%20the%20human,1.5%20million%20concentration%20camp%20inmates.&text=China%20appears%20to%20be%20the,is%20not%20the%20only%20offender. - https://humanrightscommission.house.gov/events/hearings/forced-organ-harvesting-china-examining-evidence - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Organ_harvesting_from_Falun_Gong_practitioners_in_China - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MqwNo43p21Y - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EAy8AngEZMs

5 APR 2024 · In 2014, two friends named Kris Kremers (21) and Lisanne Froone (22) headed from their home in the Netherlands to Panama to go on a trip to go sightseeing, and with the goal of doing community service. On April 1st, they left their host family’s house in Panama to go on hike and disappeared in the forests of Panama. ✨https://www.patreon.com/TSFU 🕸️Visit That's So Fcked Up's Website: https://tsfuthepodcast.com/ 🎉Support our work and get all kinds of nifty perks: https://www.patreon.com/TSFU ☕️Buy us a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tsfuthepodcast 📲Subscribe to our podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-so-fcked-up/id1508752329 🎧or Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2zo86q0aYvNSg8prn1k73N?si=590fae149eb24218 📸Follow TSFU on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tsfuthepodcast/ 🩷Follow Ash on IG: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyloverichards/ 👾Join our Discord community: https://discord.gg/c2HwBUDsUx -Research by Lizz Vandenbosch. -Audio Editing by Gaytrice Perdue. -Sources: - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deaths_of_Kris_Kremers_and_Lisanne_Froon - https://allthatsinteresting.com/kris-kremers-lisanne-froon - https://www.reddit.com/r/UnresolvedMysteries/comments/2jjvxd/disapperance_of_lisanne_froon_kris_kremers_two/reddit.comhttps://www.reddit.com/r/UnresolvedMysteries/comments/2jjvxd/disapperance_of_lisanne_froon_kris_kremers_two/ - https://www.reddit.com/r/Missing411/comments/hro07d/kremer_froon_all_picture_evidence_attached/reddit.comhttps://www.reddit.com/r/Missing411/comments/hro07d/kremer_froon_all_picture_evidence_attached/ - https://www.ranker.com/list/kris-kremers-lisanne-froon-disappearance-mystery/laura-allanranker.comhttps://www.ranker.com/list/kris-kremers-lisanne-froon-disappearance-mystery/laura-allan - https://www.news.com.au/travel/travel-updates/incidents/eerie-photos-capture-missing-hikers-final-moments-before-disappearance-in-jungle/news-story/bd67ee7aaedca555aacdee3056cff5d7news.com.auhttps://www.news.com.au/travel/travel-updates/incidents/eerie-photos-capture-missing-hikers-final-moments-before-disappearance-in-jungle/news-story/bd67ee7aaedca555aacdee3056cff5d7 - https://truecrimelists.com/12-scary-facts-about-the-deaths-of-dutch-hikers-kris-kremers-and-lisanne-froon-in-panama/ - https://forensictales.com/unexplained-deaths-of-lisanne-froon-and-kris-kremers/ - https://www.msnbc.com/know-your-value/out-of-office/how-journalist-found-herself-middle-panamanian-true-crime-story-n1300480msnbc.comhttps://www.msnbc.com/know-your-value/out-of-office/how-journalist-found-herself-middle-panamanian-true-crime-story-n1300480 - https://www.reddit.com/r/KremersFroon/comments/id6hl7/about_the_guide_feliciano/reddit.comhttps://www.reddit.com/r/KremersFroon/comments/id6hl7/about_the_guide_feliciano/ - https://imperfectplan.com/2019/12/05/kris-kremers-lisanne-froon-people-involved-reference-guide/ - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TG1nWScBfB4 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3OPhUt_XJ6Q&t=177s - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6of8b79oAFg - https://www.strangeoutdoors.com/mysterious-stories-blog/kris-kremers-lisanne-froon

2 APR 2024 · TSFU Presents is BACK! This season Ash is joined by various friends from other awesome indie podcasts! Our first episode is with https://www.instagram.com/littleleesha/?hl=en from https://linktr.ee/twistedanduncorked! Ash and Alecia go down the Project Modern Day Knight rabbit hole, PMDK is an $18,000 bootcamp for men who wants to go from beta boy to Alpha Man. It's a toxic masculinity mess... here we go! This is the first season that will be half Patreon exclusive... everyone will get to hear the first two episodes of each season, but only Patrons get to hear the last two! ✨https://www.patreon.com/TSFU 🕸️Visit That's So Fcked Up's Website: https://tsfuthepodcast.com/ 🎉Support our work and get all kinds of nifty perks: https://www.patreon.com/TSFU ☕️Buy us a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tsfuthepodcast 📲Subscribe to our podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-so-fcked-up/id1508752329 🎧or Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2zo86q0aYvNSg8prn1k73N?si=590fae149eb24218 📸Follow TSFU on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tsfuthepodcast/ 🩷Follow Ash on IG: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyloverichards/ 👾Join our Discord community: https://discord.gg/c2HwBUDsUx -Research by Lizz Vandenbosch. -Audio editing by Gaytrice Perdue. -Sources: - https://www.themdkproject.com/flip-the-switchthemdkproject.comhttps://www.themdkproject.com/flip-the-switch - https://www.vice.com/en/article/4awnqm/what-are-man-warrior-campsvice.comhttps://www.vice.com/en/article/4awnqm/what-are-man-warrior-camps - https://www.mdkproject.com/optin34205935 - https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2024/01/22/modern-day-knight-project-videos-men-man-camps/72290454007/usatoday.comhttps://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2024/01/22/modern-day-knight-project-videos-men-man-camps/72290454007/ - https://bedroskeuilian.com/2-types-of-men-1-big-difference/ - https://www.deseret.com/2024/1/29/24046880/man-camps-modern-day-knight-project-spartan-race - https://www.entrepreneur.com/living/how-this-entrepreneur-overcame-anxiety-attacks-and-turned/322617 - https://bedroskeuilian.com/ - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/40564747-man-up - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LtckN-VaZ-g&t=1s

29 MAR 2024 · ✨https://www.patreon.com/TSFU Happy Good Friday! That works as a special holiday greeting to our friends who celebrate and also just a nice greeting for everyone else haha! In the Christmas episode, Ash first told her version of the story of the birth of Jesus and Christmas, and then Kristal and Ryan schooled her on what she got wrong (hint: there were three wise men, not twelve). In our Easter episode we're doing the exact same thing, Ash gets about 20% of the story right and Kristal tells the rest! Find Kristal on her https://linktr.ee/Kristaladams, check her out on https://www.instagram.com/thedarkkristal/, and find more info about and tickets to for her live stand-up shows https://linktr.ee/astigmatismcomedy. And PLEASE consider donating to her https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1hitwonder/mutiny-black-girl-magik1 for her latest comic book "MUTINY: BLACK GIRL MAGIK#1"! It's "Star Wars" meets T"he Wiz" in this brand new action-adventure comic-book from a Black Femmes creative team! 🕸️Visit That's So Fcked Up's Website: https://tsfuthepodcast.com/ 🎉Support our work and get all kinds of nifty perks: https://www.patreon.com/TSFU ☕️Buy us a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tsfuthepodcast 📲Subscribe to our podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-so-fcked-up/id1508752329 🎧or Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2zo86q0aYvNSg8prn1k73N?si=590fae149eb24218 📸Follow TSFU on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tsfuthepodcast/ 🩷Follow Ash on IG: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyloverichards/ 👾Join our Discord community: https://discord.gg/c2HwBUDsUx -Research and storytelling by Kristal Adams. -Audio editing by Dallas Hernandez. -Sources: - King  James Bible - https://www.foxweather.com/lifestyle/easter-bunny-eggs-ancient-spring-traditions-christian-pagan