7 MAY 2024 · Many people have the misconception that their significant others can fulfill them. They may be able to fill some of your wants, desires, and needs, in a tangible way (money, possessions, etc., but they can't ever fulfill you because it requires dealing with those things they can't see. Only you can do that for yourself. It is you who must heal your inner man or woman.

7 MAY 2024 · Please stop putting all Black women in the same category, it's wrong, for we are NOT all, of the same mindset!

4 MAY 2024 · People want to blame and not be held accountable when they get themselves into unhealthy and toxic relationships. If you get into a relationship and do not adhere to the signs and red flags you will suffer the consequences of the choices you made. When people find themselves in toxic relationships they find comfort in hearing people say "it's not your fault." Well, they're lying to you, because it is. You chose it, you allowed it, and therefore it is you who is accountable and responsible for the choices you made. If you were forced into the relationship or you weren't in your right mind, that's a different story, but that's not the type of relationships I'm referencing. I'm talking about those people getting into relationships of free will. Lying to you will not help you at all! You may not have asked for it but if you allow it to happen you signed off on it.

30 APR 2024 · How you think, affects you, your relationships, and many facets of your life. Unhealed hearts and minds leads many on paths of unhappiness. What's really sad is that people choose to remain where they've always been and never choosing change. The one person people neglect the most is the very one who needs attention, SELF! People go through life looking for the very things they need to possess within self. This is because of unhealed hearts and minds. If you don't deal with your unresolved issues, you can't heal from them and move on. People hold on to all of the negative thoughts and feelings, which leads to dysfunctional ways of living. People go through life wondering why they always go through things, but truth is 99% of the time people open themselves up to things they shouldn't. It goes back to unhealed mindsets. People cast blame, but how we choose to live or who we choose to become, falls on self.

27 APR 2024 · It's unfair to put every man in the same category. Not all men are on the same level. There are mature men in this world just as there are plenty of immature. The world is mostly ran by the immature minded individuals, who are chasing people and things to fulfull self gratification. Most people are full of greed, chasing the flesh, and lack self-control. Not all men are the same and not all women are the same.

23 APR 2024 · Many parents think their child/ren owe them for bringing them into the world and caring for them. I'm here to say you're wrong and it was your duty to take care of them, because you had them. Sometimes children grow up and don't give their parent/s the attention and time they once did. The children have relationships and marriages that takes precedent over parents, especially marriages. Some parents can't accept it and cause problems for their child/ren. You owe your child, your child don't owe you. Hopefully your adult child/ren will show you love and kindness, but in case they don't spend as much time with you, love them anyways. Don't cause your children problems because your feelings are in the way. Don't be selfish!

20 APR 2024 · Trying to love someone who doesn't want you is a bad decision. You will suffer the consequences of your choices. Love yourself enough to respect yourself and know your worth. If you haven't figured you out or learnt to love yourself you will undoubtedly open yourself up to unnecessary and unwarranted drama, headache, and heartache. Stop trying to hold on to people who don't want to you. Love yourself enough to make better choices.

16 APR 2024 · Too many people live life in misery. They struggle their entire lives because they keep doing the same things. They choose to be comfortable where they have always been, but never see that they are their own worst enemy. If you know you're struggling with something but you keep indulging in it or going back to it, you're the problem! People fail themselves over and over. On top of that, they choose to do it again and again. You can't get better by remaining the same. That weight will never get off of your back until you take it off. The only person holding you down and back is you!

13 APR 2024 ·  It doesn't matter how much you love him or her, if they don't love you, it will be an unhealthy relationship and you'll be an unhappy person.

9 APR 2024 · Many people operate from unhealthy mindsets. It doesn't matter how much someone loves you or you love someone, they can't take away the pain inside of you. Unhealed hearts and minds ruins and sabotages lives and sometimes leads to self destruction.