9 JUN 2024 · I had the pleasure of speaking with Alycia Williams, a sex and relationship therapist with a wealth of experience and a unique perspective rooted in her own background and professional journey. Alycia's insights into the complexity of human sexuality, the importance of self-acceptance, and the transformative power of therapy were both enlightening and inspiring. Her approach, emphasizing personal growth, open communication, and the celebration of individuality within relationships, resonated deeply with me. This interview is a reminder of the beauty in embracing our own stories and the potential for growth and connection when we approach our relationships and ourselves with curiosity and compassion. Alycia's work, particularly in the realms of sex therapy and navigating non-traditional relationship dynamics, challenges societal norms and encourages a more inclusive and understanding perspective on love and desire. Her ability to foster a safe space for exploration and her commitment to educating and empowering others is truly admirable. I am reminded of the importance of continuing to learn and grow, both personally and professionally, and the value of conversations like these. You can find Alycia https://www.alyciawilliams.com/. *this podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your medical provider. ****************************************************************************************Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? I'd love to talk to your audience about it! You can find me here: Email: karen@taboototruth.com ⁠⁠⁠https://www.taboototruth.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast

6 JUN 2024 · In today's conversation, I delve into the importance of addressing our sexual health, a critical aspect often relegated to the background due to various reasons such as hormonal changes, lack of a partner, or societal embarrassment. It's crucial to understand that sexual wellness is integral to our overall health, yet it's frequently overlooked or left until the last minute to discuss with healthcare providers. I've observed a common thread in conversations, regardless of gender, revealing a widespread hesitancy to talk about sexual health, often due to misinformation or discomfort. It's essential to break this silence, as untreated sexual health issues can significantly impact our quality of life. I urge you to reach out to me with your questions, no matter how embarrassing they may seem. By sharing our experiences and seeking advice, we can destigmatize these discussions, ensuring a fulfilling sexual life that contributes to our overall well-being. ****************************************************************************************Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? I'd love to talk to your audience about it! You can find me here: Email: karen@taboototruth.com ⁠⁠⁠https://www.taboototruth.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast

2 JUN 2024 · In this episode, I had the pleasure of chatting with my friend CJ. CJ opened up about her journey from being in long-term monogamous relationships, including a ten-year marriage that ended due to intimacy mismatches, to exploring an open relationship with her husband. She shared the challenges and discoveries she faced while venturing into online dating, embracing her bis$xual identity, and ultimately finding fulfillment in an open, kink-friendly relationship. CJ's story is a testament to the importance of self-worth, setting boundaries, and the transformative power of exploring one's desires and needs without shame. We delved into the complexities of navigating non-monogamous relationships, the significance of communication and boundaries, and how these experiences have enriched her life and marriage. Now a certified life and sex coach, CJ, emphasizes the importance of destigmatizing sexual exploration and encourages others, especially women over 40, to embrace their desires boldly and without shame. Her journey is not just about the pursuit of sexual fulfillment but a deeper understanding of self-love, partnership, and the myriad ways in which we can connect with others. Her insights and experiences are a valuable resource for anyone curious about or actively exploring non-monogamy, kink, and personal growth. You can find CJ https://In%20today's%20episode%20of%20Taboo%20the%20Truth,%20I%20had%20the%20pleasure%20of%20chatting%20with%20my%20friend%20CJ,%20whom%20I%20met%20during%20my%20S$xuality%20Educator%20Certification%20Program.%20CJ%20opened%20up%20about%20her%20journey%20from%20being%20in%20long-term%20monogamous%20relationships,%20including%20a%20ten-year%20marriage%20that%20ended%20due%20to%20intimacy%20mismatches,%20to%20exploring%20an%20open%20relationship%20with%20her%20husband.%20She%20shared%20the%20challenges%20and%20discoveries%20she%20faced%20while%20venturing%20into%20online%20dating,%20embracing%20her%20bis$xual%20identity,%20and%20ultimately%20finding%20fulfillment%20in%20an%20open,%20kink-friendly%20relationship.%20CJ's%20story%20is%20a%20testament%20to%20the%20importance%20of%20self-worth,%20setting%20boundaries,%20and%20the%20transformative%20power%20of%20exploring%20one's%20desires%20and%20needs%20without%20shame.%20We%20delved%20into%20the%20complexities%20of%20navigating%20non-monogamous%20relationships,%20the%20significance%20of%20communication%20and%20boundaries,%20and%20how%20these%20experiences%20have%20enriched%20her%20life%20and%20marriage.%20CJ,%20now%20a%20certified%20life%20and%20sex%20coach,%20emphasizes%20the%20importance%20of%20destigmatizing%20sexual%20exploration%20and%20encourages%20others,%20especially%20women%20over%2040,%20to%20embrace%20their%20desires%20boldly%20and%20without%20shame.%20Her%20journey%20is%20not%20just%20about%20the%20pursuit%20of%20sexual%20fulfillment%20but%20a%20deeper%20understanding%20of%20self-love,%20partnership,%20and%20the%20myriad%20ways%20in%20which%20we%20can%20connect%20with%20others.%20Her%20insights%20and%20experiences%20are%20a%20valuable%20resource%20for%20anyone%20curious%20about%20or%20actively%20exploring%20non-monogamy,%20kink,%20and%20personal%20growth.. https://bit.ly/4BoundaryMicroShifts ****************************************************************************************Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? I'd love to talk to your audience about it! You can find me here: Email: karen@taboototruth.com ⁠⁠⁠https://www.taboototruth.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast

30 MAY 2024 · In today's episode, I'm diving into polyamory, a lifestyle choice centered around engaging in consensual relationships with multiple partners. Polyamory, a blend of 'poly' meaning many and 'amor' for love, manifests in various forms, including hierarchical polyamory, where a primary relationship takes precedence over others, and non-hierarchical relationships, where all partners are considered equal. The essence of polyamory lies in the mutual consent and agreement on the terms of the relationship, which distinguishes it from infidelity. It’s a path that requires open communication and a clear understanding of the guidelines everyone involved agrees to follow. Navigating polyamorous relationships can be complex, involving not just sexual connections but emotional ones that demand a high level of understanding and constant communication to manage potential jealousy and ensure the relationship's health. ****************************************************************************************Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? I'd love to talk to your audience about it! You can find me here: Email: karen@taboototruth.com ⁠⁠⁠https://www.taboototruth.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast

26 MAY 2024 · In this episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Todd "Max" Carey, a director and filmmaker who has delved into the intriguing world of kink and BDSM through his latest documentary. Todd shared his insights on the complexity and fluidity of human sexuality, emphasizing kink as an umbrella term that encompasses a diverse range of practices and preferences, many of which are becoming increasingly mainstream.  In our conversation, Todd challenged conventional labels, advocating for a more nuanced understanding of our desires and the roles we play in our intimate encounters. Todd's journey into the kink community revealed a profound sense of community and communication, underscoring the importance of consent and mutual respect in all forms of sexual expression. We also touched upon the transformative power of kink for individuals, including those working through trauma, and the potential for creativity and innovation in personal relationships. https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddmaxcarey/is an award-winning film producer and director making documentary films that explore the hidden and fascinating aspects of human nature. Learn more about "touch Kink" the documentary https://www.linkedin.com/posts/toddmaxcarey_regarding-the-international-screenings-activity-7196543660795019264-r7qt. ****************************************************************************************Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? I'd love to talk to your audience about it! You can find me here: Email: karen@taboototruth.com ⁠⁠⁠https://www.taboototruth.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast

23 MAY 2024 · Recently, Bumble faced backlash for their ad campaign, with slogans that seemed to undervalue personal choices about dating and celibacy, sparking questions about the role of dating apps in modern society. As someone deeply engaged with Bumble and Hinge, I've noticed a shift. It used to be easier to transition from matching to meeting in person, but now it feels like connections are less serious. This change has led me to ponder if the effectiveness or appeal of dating apps is diminishing. In this episode I peel back the layers on: - The shifting dynamics of dating apps like Bumble and Hinge. - The quest for genuine connections amidst AI's rise. - Innovations we crave for deeper, real-life engagements. **************************************************************************************** Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? I'd love to talk to your audience about it! You can find me here: Email: karen@taboototruth.com ⁠⁠⁠https://www.taboototruth.com/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast

19 MAY 2024 · In this episode, I explore the multifaceted world of sexology and the importance of finding the right professional to address sexual health and intimacy issues with Sex Counselor, Heather Howard, PhD, MPH. We delved into the differences between sex therapists, counselors, sexological bodyworkers, and surrogate partners, highlighting the significance of their roles in helping individuals and couples navigate sexual challenges. This was an eye-opening conversation. We talked about the diverse approaches and ethical considerations within this field, underscoring the importance of a nonjudgmental, informed, and supportive environment for addressing sexual concerns. Navigating the world of sexual health and intimacy can sometimes feel daunting, especially when trying to find the right support. The insights from our discussion serve as a reminder that it's okay to shop around for a provider who makes you feel understood and respected. Whether you're dealing with the aftermath of a divorce, exploring new aspects of your sexuality, or facing sexual health challenges, the key takeaway is that you're not alone, and there's professional help available. 00:01:20 What is Sexology? 00:07:01 Sexuality Counselor vs. a Sex Therapist 00:17:46 What happens in your session? 00:19:52 Treating painful sex in your sessions-an action plan 00:27:16 What is you're single and have issues with sex? 00:32:20 Touch vs. Hands-off sex therapy 00:42:23 What qualifications should you look for in a sexology professional? 00:48:09 When should you see a sexology professional? 00:51:40 The key to finding the right professional Find https://www.linkedin.com/in/drheatherhoward/ Instagram @drheatherhoward @ergoerotics https://heatherhoward.com/ Ergoerotics: https://ergoerotics.com/product/video-strategies-for-comfortable-pleasure/ ************************************************************* Have a burning question or topic suggestion? https://taboototruth.com ⁠⁠⁠https://www.taboototruth.com/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast *this podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your medical provider

12 MAY 2024 · In today's episode, I'm diving into the world of kink, a term that captures a broad spectrum of activities beyond the conventional or "vanilla" intimate practices. Kink isn't just about the extreme of dungeons and dramatic scenarios; it's fundamentally about venturing into desires that stray from one's usual experiences, which could be as straightforward as altering the ambiance with different lighting. Within this realm, BDSM stands out as a notable subset, encompassing bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadomasochism. Many people find kink a playful and explorative outlet, a healthy way to relieve stress, and an avenue for fostering deep trust and communication with their partners. This journey into understanding kink and BDSM invites us to broaden our perspective on the diversity of human pleasure and the ways in which adults can engage in consensual, informed, and joyful exploration. ************************************************************* Have a burning question or topic suggestion? karen@taboototruth.com ⁠⁠⁠https://www.taboototruth.com/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast *this podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your medical provider --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/taboototruth/message

5 MAY 2024 · In part 2 of my interview with Dr Staci Gruber, we delved into the complexities of cannabis use, including its potential for addiction, known formally as Cannabis Use Disorder (CUD). We also touched upon the evolution of cannabis potency over the years, with today's products containing much higher THC levels than those from decades ago, raising the stakes in the risk-benefit analysis of cannabis consumption. The conversation further explored the medical applications of cannabis, highlighting its utility in managing pain, sleep disorders, and other health issues. The conversation also ventured into the areas of women's health, underscoring the lack of research and the growing interest in cannabis for managing conditions like endometriosis and menopause symptoms. It was a reminder of the importance of being an informed consumer, understanding the goal of your cannabis use, and ensuring the safety and efficacy of the products you choose. Our dialogue underscored the evolving landscape of cannabis use and research, highlighting the need for more education and open conversations between consumers and healthcare providers to navigate the complexities of cannabis as both a medicinal and recreational substance. Watch the full episode https://youtu.be/-CK4HnW76DU About Dr. Gruber Dr. Staci Gruber is the Director of the Cognitive and Clinical Neuroimaging Core at McLean Hospital’s Brain Imaging Center and an Associate Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. Dr. Gruber’s research focuses on the application of neurocognitive models and brain imaging to characterize risk factors for substance abuse and psychiatric conditions. Dr. Gruber launched Marijuana Investigations for Neuroscientific Discovery (MIND) in 2014, the first-ever program of its kind designed to clarify the long-term impact of medical cannabis use. Dr. Gruber also launched the Women’s Health Initiative at MIND, or WHIM, the first cannabis-focused program designed specifically to address women’s health and disorders that disproportionately affect women as well as some transgender and non-binary individuals. ********************************************************** Have a burning question or topic suggestion? karen@taboototruth.com ⁠⁠⁠https://www.taboototruth.com/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth⁠⁠⁠ https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast *this podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your medical provider. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/taboototruth/message

28 APR 2024 · In today's episode, part 1 of 2, I had the pleasure of welcoming Dr. Stacey Gruber, a renowned expert in the field of cannabis research and its implications on mental health and substance abuse. One of the most compelling parts of our conversation revolved around personal experiences with cannabis, including my own. Dr. Gruber eloquently addressed the challenges and misconceptions surrounding cannabis use for medical purposes, emphasizing the importance of finding the right product and dosage to suit individual needs and conditions. She also touched on the potential benefits of cannabis in enhancing sexual health and wellbeing, a topic that resonates with many yet often goes unexplored. Dr. Gruber's work is not just about cannabis; it's about opening doors to new forms of treatment that could revolutionize how we approach mental health and wellness. Her dedication to advancing our understanding of cannabis and its potential benefits is truly inspiring, leaving me eager to learn more about how this plant could impact our lives in positive ways. *watch the full episode https://youtu.be/-CK4HnW76DU About Dr. Gruber Dr. Staci Gruber is the Director of the Cognitive and Clinical Neuroimaging Core at McLean Hospital’s Brain Imaging Center and an Associate Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. Dr. Gruber’s research focuses on the application of neurocognitive models and brain imaging to characterize risk factors for substance abuse and psychiatric conditions. Dr. Gruber launched Marijuana Investigations for Neuroscientific Discovery (MIND) in 2014, the first-ever program of its kind designed to clarify the long-term impact of medical cannabis use. Dr. Gruber also launched the Women’s Health Initiative at MIND, or WHIM, the first cannabis-focused program designed specifically to address women’s health and disorders that disproportionately affect women as well as some transgender and non-binary individuals. ********************************************************** Have a burning question or topic suggestion? karen@taboototruth.com ⁠⁠⁠https://www.taboototruth.com/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth⁠⁠⁠ https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast *this podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your medical provider. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/taboototruth/message