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7 JUL 2025 · When 29-year-old Michelle Young was found dead in her Raleigh, North Carolina home, the discovery sent shockwaves through her family, her circle of friends, and the community. Michelle was married, the mother of a toddler, and expecting her second child. She was beautiful, bright, and driven; by all accounts, a woman with so much ahead of her. Michelle’s brutal murder baffled the quiet suburban neighborhood and prompted a frustrating investigation that would grow increasingly complicated by the lack of cooperation from Michelle’s husband. Her marriage to 32-year-old Jason Young had been troubled from the beginning, but at the time of her death, he was reportedly hundreds of miles away on a business trip. As detectives began piecing together the timeline, unsettling questions began to surface. Who would do this to a young mother in her own home? Could it have been a random act of violence, or was the truth far closer to home? The investigation uncovered complicated relationships, emotional wounds, and evidence that raised more questions than answers. In this episode, we explore the case that shook Raleigh and pushed the justice system to its limits before any sense of resolution was found.
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Today's snacks: Greek yogurt with granola, honey, cinnamon and chocolate chips, and https://shop.hersheys.com/our-brands/reeses/034000455065.html
Sources:
- Epstein, Steven (2019) . Murder on Birchleaf Drive. Black Lyon Publishing.
- Blanchard, Lynne (2016). Absence of Evidence: An Examination of the Michelle Young Murder Case
- https://www.redfin.com/NC/Raleigh/5108-Birchleaf-Dr-27606/home/41167194
- https://www.wral.com/story/9725672/
- https://www.drugs.com/sfx/pancof-pd-side-effects.html
- https://www.wral.com/story/michelle-young-murder-case-timeline-of-events/9662412/
- https://www.newspapers.com/image/659721997/?match=1&terms=Jason%20Young%20Michelle%20Young\https://www.newspapers.com/image/657981908/?match=1&terms=%22Michelle%20Young%22
- https://nrlc.org/federal/unbornvictims/statehomicidelaws092302/
- https://www.newspapers.com/image/657995236/?terms=%22Michelle%20Young%22
- https://www.peacocktv.com/watch/playback/vod/GMO_00000000410634_01/bdc6741f-c7e7-3a5a-96ad-bfd733d43477
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4 JUL 2025 · The Dolly Oesterreich case is one of the most bizarre and sensational true crime stories of the early 20th century. Walburga “Dolly” Oesterreich was a Milwaukee housewife married to a wealthy textile manufacturer, Fred Oesterreich. On the surface, she appeared to live a conventional life, but behind closed doors, her world was anything but ordinary. Dolly had a complicated personal life that eventually led to a shocking crime. The investigation that followed revealed a tangled web of secrets, deception, and relationships that defied social norms and legal boundaries. What began as a puzzling death soon unraveled into a story so strange that even seasoned detectives struggled to believe it.
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Today's snack: Golden Graham S'mores
Sources:
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ez31LGkrvG0&t=2729s
- https://www.thevintagenews.com/2022/11/14/dolly-oesterreich/
- https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/116235401/walburga_barbara-hedrick
- https://murderpedia.org/female.O/o/oesterreich-walburga.htm
- https://www.newspapers.com/image/622315868/?terms=%22dolly%20oesterreich%22
- https://www.newspapers.com/image/608475845/?match=1&terms=%22dolly%20oesterreich%22
- https://allthatsinteresting.com/dolly-oesterreich
- https://thecinemaholic.com/fred-oesterreich-murder-what-happened-to-walburga-dolly-oesterreich-and-otto-sanhuber/
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30 JUN 2025 · When Susan Kuhnhausen came home from work on a September evening in 2006, she noticed something felt…off. Minutes later, a man charged at her from the shadows with a hammer in hand. What followed was a shocking and harrowing fight for survival—and an investigation that uncovered a dark and twisted plot involving betrayal, manipulation, and a hitman with a violent past. This week, we tell the story of Susan and Michael Kuhnhausen, a case that forces us to ask: how well can you ever really know the person you married?
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Today’s snack: https://www.justataste.com/loaded-totchos-tater-tot-nachos-recipe/
Sources:
- https://www.wweek.com/news/2016/08/17/a-hit-man-came-to-kill-susan-kuhnhausen-she-survived-he-didnt/
- Who the (Bleep) Did I Marry? S2 E14, “No Bigger Gamble”
- https://blurredbylines.com/articles/susan-kuhnhausen-walters-survivor-hitman-portland/
- https://www.oregonlive.com/politics/2014/06/portlander_who_hired_hitman_to.html
- https://www.cbsnews.com/news/intruder-killed-by-nurse-was-hit-man/
- https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueCrimeDiscussion/comments/1f7i45a/surviving_the_unthinkable_the_susan_kuhnhausen/
- https://www.oregonlive.com/portland/2014/04/woman_who_fatally_strangled_hi.html
- https://www.facebook.com/Susan.WaltersRN
- Martinis, Cheryl. “Lincoln City woman’s threats allegedly led to her rape, death.” The Oregonian, Jan. 25, 1994, p. B10.
- Bernstein, Maxine. “Intruder strangled by nurse: A hitman?” The Oregonian, Sep. 15, 2006, p. A1.
- Peterson, Anne M. “Police say nurse killed ‘hit man’”. The Huntsville Times, Sep. 17, 2006, p. A16.
- Associated Press. “Portland man accused of murder-for-hire plot denied release on bail.” The Bulletin (Bend, Oregon), Dec. 30, 2006, p. C3.
- Saker, Anne. “Man admits plot to kill his wife.” The Oregonian, Aug. 30, 2007, p. B1.
- Saker, Anne. “‘I am damaged. But I am not destroyed.” The Oregonian, Sep. 8, 2007, p. A1.
- Green, Aimee. “Jury grants $1 million to wife in murder plot.” The Oregonian, Mar. 7, 2008, p. B4.
- Tara the hero cat: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EEa6jZv-Khc
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23 JUN 2025 · On the night of November 8, 1983, David Hendricks returned home from a business trip to find his wife, Susan, and their three young children brutally murdered in their beds. They had been killed with an axe and a butcher knife—both from the family home. Investigators quickly turned their focus to David. There were no signs of forced entry, the burglary attempt seemed staged, and there were no other viable suspects. It was called the “cleanest bloody crime scene”. David’s unemotional demeanor, strange midnight business trip, and seemingly rehearsed account raised suspicions, and the coroner’s estimate of the time of death—based on the children’s stomach contents—suggested the murders occurred before David left for his trip. Prosecutors theorized he was growing restless in his strict religious life and may have killed his family to escape it. Did David Hendricks kill his family or was it an intruder?
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Today's snack: https://pudgefactor.com/buc-ees-copycat-beaver-nuggets/#recipe
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16 JUN 2025 · On the night of November 8, 1983, David Hendricks returned home from a business trip to find his wife, Susan, and their three young children brutally murdered in their beds. They had been killed with an axe and a butcher knife—both from the family home. Investigators quickly turned their focus to David. There were no signs of forced entry, the burglary attempt seemed staged, and there were no other viable suspects. It was called the “cleanest bloody crime scene”. David’s unemotional demeanor, strange midnight business trip, and seemingly rehearsed account raised suspicions, and the coroner’s estimate of the time of death—based on the children’s stomach contents—suggested the murders occurred before David left for his trip. Prosecutors theorized he was growing restless in his strict religious life and may have killed his family to escape it. Did David Hendricks kill his family or was it an intruder?
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Today's snacks: https://bauerscandy.com/product/classic-modjeskas-gift-box/ and https://purity.nf.ca/confectionery/ (thanks Lisa and Tammy)
Sources:
- https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/313-Carl-Dr-Bloomington-IL-61704/76978912_zpid/ Hendrick’s house
- https://play.howstuffworks.com/quiz/true-crime-quiz true crime quiz
- https://www.hoopladigital.com/ebook/reasonable-doubt-steve-vogel/12113558
- https://www.newspapers.com/image/72563136/?match=1&terms=David%20Hendricks%20Jon%20Lewis
- https://www.tampabay.com/archive/1997/09/14/murdered-family-follows-him-for-life/
- https://www.newspapers.com/search/results/?date-end=2025&date-start=1989&keyword=David+Hendricks+Jon+Lewis&publication-ids=3152®ion=us-il&sort=paper-date-asc
- https://www.newspapers.com/image/75603388/?match=1&terms=David%20Hendricks%20Jon%20Lewis
- https://www.newspapers.com/image/72939480/?match=1&terms=David%20Hendricks%20Jon%20Lewis
- https://www.newspapers.com/image/504445477/?terms=%22David%20Hendricks%22
- https://www.newspapers.com/image/461418367/?match=1&terms=%22David%20Hendricks%22
- https://www.newspapers.com/image/73348247/?match=1&terms=Hendricks%20flunked%20polygraph
- https://www.newspapers.com/image/72539351/?match=1&terms=Testimony%20on%20Hendricks%E2%80%99%20ex-brother-in-law%20barred.
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9 JUN 2025 · Content warning: This episode contains discussions of domestic violence, mental illness, suicide, and graphic violence that may be disturbing to some listeners. Listener discretion is strongly advised.
Katherine Knight was known in her small Australian town in New South Wales, Aberdeen, as tough, unpredictable, and deeply troubled. She had a history of violent relationships, a fierce temper, and a dark past that few dared to challenge. When she entered a new relationship in the late 1990s, friends and family were concerned—but no one could have predicted how it would end. In this episode, we explore the life of Katherine Knight, the red flags that were ignored, and the events that led to one of the most infamous criminal cases in Australian history.
Today's snacks: https://www.taste.com.au/articles/nation-spoken-only-way-make-truly-aussie-sausage-sizzle/fh82bu0b and https://www.wandercooks.com/australian-christmas-fairy-bread/
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Sources:
- Man-Eater: The Terrifying True Story of Cannibal Killer Katherine Knight by Ryan Green (2019) self-published
- https://www.amazon.com/Blood-Stain-Peter-Lalor/dp/1865088781
- https://www.hoopladigital.com/audiobook/green-is-the-new-black-james-phelps/12249267
- https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/true-stories/cops-horrific-discovery-inside-wa-home-still-haunts-them/news-story/73553ade114298cf8bfda4730d845e5b
- https://www.adelaidenow.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/queen-bee-cannibal-killer-katherine-knights-life-in-prison-where-shes-known-as-the-nanna/news-story/e6f5e013f7be2c6328eb40029e0715b2
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rdd1uvku8pk
- https://murderpedia.org/female.K/k/knight-katherine.htm
- https://www.newcastleherald.com.au/story/445897/katherine-knights-home-movies/
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8 JUN 2025 · On Friday, May 30 2025, Travis Decker failed to return his three daughters—Paityn (9), Evelyn (8), and Olivia (5) after a court-ordered visit in Wenatchee, Washington. Days later, their bodies were found at a remote campground.
Decker, a 32-year-old Army veteran with PTSD and BPD, vanished. He’s now wanted for three counts of first-degree murder and kidnapping. A nationwide manhunt is underway, with help from the FBI and U.S. Marshals. Authorities believe he may be using his military training to survive on the Pacific Crest Trail.
Sources
- To submit a tip go to: https://www.co.chelan.wa.us/sheriff/forms/submit-a-tip
- https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-whitney-decker
- https://people.com/mom-decker-sisters-shares-video-tribute-fathers-day-11749786 (Happy video made by Whitney)
- https://abcnews.go.com/US/father-killed-3-daughters-active-dad-system-failed/story?id=122550676
- https://www.yahoo.com/news/why-wasnt-amber-alert-sent-170855132.html?fr=yhssrp_catchall
- https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14789239/mom-three-murdered-girls-bizarre-tribute-killer-ex-decker.html
- https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14779755/travis-decker-military-record-murder-daughters-police-manhunt.html
- https://www.newsweek.com/travis-decker-update-manhunt-continues-new-text-message-revealed-2082023
- https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/07/us/manhunt-father-killing-daughters-wenatchee.html?searchResultPosition=2
- https://www.yahoo.com/news/manhunt-travis-decker-reaches-day-003531834.html?fr=yhssrp_catchall
- https://www.the-independent.com/news/world/americas/crime/travis-decker-daughters-army-washington-b2764163.html
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2 JUN 2025 · In October 1999, 48-year-old librarian Gail Fulton was shot and killed outside the Lake Orion, Michigan library where she worked. What initially appeared to be a cold-blooded, random attack soon revealed itself as something far more personal—and far more calculated.
At the center of the case: a crumbling marriage, a secret affair, and a woman named Donna Trapani who refused to be cast aside. The investigation uncovered a disturbing murder-for-hire plot involving a fake pregnancy, a forged suicide note, and three willing accomplices, all wrapped up in obsession, manipulation, and delusion.
The story spans two years of emotional unraveling, culminating in a fatal encounter that shattered a family. This case raises complex questions about accountability, denial, and the consequences of ignoring red flags.
Today's snack: Michigan Awesome https://www.michiganawesome.com/products/chocolate-covered-cherries and https://www.michiganawesome.com/products/cinnamon-roasted-almonds (thanks Sarah!)
https://payments.efundsforschools.com/v3/districts/55767/add-to-cart/55rxgYKz9kDn%7C6bfQBWN3jnCs%7Cgeneral-item
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26 MAY 2025 · In October 1999, 48-year-old librarian Gail Fulton was shot and killed outside the Lake Orion, Michigan library where she worked. What initially appeared to be a cold-blooded, random attack soon revealed itself as something far more personal—and far more calculated.
At the center of the case: a crumbling marriage, a secret affair, and a woman named Donna Trapani who refused to be cast aside. The investigation uncovered a disturbing murder-for-hire plot involving a fake pregnancy, a forged suicide note, and three willing accomplices, all wrapped up in obsession, manipulation, and delusion.
The story spans two years of emotional unraveling, culminating in a fatal encounter that shattered a family. This case raises complex questions about accountability, denial, and the consequences of ignoring red flags.
Today's snacks: https://texassnax.com/products/beaver-nuggets-sea-salted-caramel-large, https://www.glico.com/us/product/pocky/18957/, https://texassnax.com/products/large-peanut-brittle, https://www.walmart.com/ip/Buc-ee-s-Brittle/2401623557 (thanks Sam and Julia!)
Happy birthday Emma!
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Sources:
- Phelps, M. William. Kiss of the She-devil. 2013, Pinnacle Books.
- https://www.newspapers.com/image/760067552/
- Snapped, S28 E17, Donna Trapani.
- https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/223376204/dora-garza
- https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/228199152/noe-chapa-garza
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19 MAY 2025 · In January 1999, Miriam Illes was gunned down in her kitchen while on the phone with a friend. There were no witnesses. No fingerprints. And the few pieces of physical evidence—an oversized shoe print, a cigarette butt, and a homemade silencer—seemed to point nowhere.
Her estranged husband, Dr. Richard Illes, was a respected heart surgeon with a thriving career, a new girlfriend, and a bitter custody battle underway. He also had an airtight alibi—until investigators started pulling at the seams.It was a murder that some called “almost perfect,” but ultimately it unraveled under the weight of its own misdirection. Anonymous letters, planted evidence, and a chilling unfinished manuscript brought one man’s elaborate plan crashing down.
Was it a brilliant cover-up? Or a case of ego gone wrong?
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Today's snack: https://www.albanesecandy.com/ assortment (thanks Lana!)
Sources:
- https://www.lycolaw.org/uploads/opinions/2005-Illes070805br.pdf
- The Perfect Murder, S1 E1, The Heart Shot.
- Kinney, David. “Reward offered in woman’s slaying.” The News Journal (Wilmington, Delaware), 04 Sep. 1999.
- Shellem, Pete. “Doctor objects to grand jury writ.” The Patriot-News (Harrisburg, Pennsylvania), 19 Jan. 2000.
- Beauge, John. “‘We’re looking for justice’.” The Patriot-News (Harrisburg, Pennsylvania), 09 Dec. 2001.
- Lewerenz, Dan. “Police: Silencer ties husband to wife’s killing.” Centre Daily Times, 19 Dec. 2002.
- Lewerenz, Dan. “Surgeon sniper shot wife: Police.” National Post, 20 Dec. 2002.
- Dale, Maryclaire. “Physician arrested in Spokane for 1999 Pennsylvania slaying.” The News Tribune (Tacoma, Washington), 23 Dec. 2002.
- Beauge, John. “Doctor wished wife dead, nurse testifies.” The Patriot-News (Harrisburg, Pennsylvania), 20 Feb. 2003.
- Lewerenz, Dan. “Nurse says doc wanted wife dead.” Press Enterprise (Bloomsburg, Pennsylvania), 21 Feb. 2003.
- Beauge, John. “Heart surgeon’s trial opens.” The Patriot-News (Harrisburg, Pennsylvania), 21 Jan. 2004.
- Beauge, John. “Suicide try lengthens mental hospital stay.” The Patriot-News (Harrisburg, Pennsylvania), 04 Mar. 2004.
- “Surgeon denies killing wife.” The Patriot-News (Harrisburg, Pennsylvania), 30 Mar. 2004.
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