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Dating Transformation

  • How to Use Emojis to Send Flirty Texts and Get Dates ;)

    23 JUN 2024 · In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix 5 of the most frustrating dating problems men face. He shares texting secrets to help you STOP getting ghosted, reveals why women love nice guys (not “alpha males”), and shares his favorite move for going for the first kiss. Listen now! FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3 READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
    Played 27m 40s
  • How I Went from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women! The Power of Radical Authenticity

    20 MAY 2024 · Would you like to stop doubting yourself and start confidently connecting with wonderful women—without using sketchy pickup artist tricks? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks about the night that transformed his love life and his self-confidence. Are you ready to harness the power of your own Authenticity, flirt with charm, and find a wonderful woman who loves you for you? Then listen now! FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3 READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
    Played 41m 28s
  • 10 Flirty Questions to Ask Women When You Approach

    15 MAY 2024 · Not knowing what to say is the biggest thing that stops you from approaching women in bars, coffee shops, or at your gym. And if you talk to women sometimes, do you flirt correctly? Or do you come off as boring, or even creepy? It’s hard to know! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 10 flirty questions to ask women when you approach, so you can confidently know exactly what to say when you approach… and get numbers and dates. Listen now! And remember to approach with AUTHENTICITY! Because women like you for you. FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3 READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend Quotes "Syncing with emotions is key. It's about embracing the emotional wavelength—fun and playfulness intertwined." -Connell Barnett “Genuine connections thrive when you show interest in understanding her true self."- Connell Barnett Featured in the episode Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation Website:https://datingtransformation.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation Chapters 00:00 - Introduction 01:53 - Mastering Interaction with 10 Key Questions 03:35 - The Key to Engagement06:58 - Love Life Transformation 12:26 - Inquiring About Her Company 13:37 - Turning Misunderstandings Around 17:09 - Breaking Stereotypes 21:54 - Positive Work Inquiries: Elevating Conversations 23:19 - Boosting Attraction Levels25:18 - Outro  Powered by Heartcastmedia
    Played 25m 36s
  • The Top 10 Flirting Mistakes You Make… and 10 Instant Fixes!

    15 APR 2024 · If you struggle to flirt with women, guess what: You’re likely making some common flirting mistakes, and you don’t even know it! If you fall into any of these 10 flirting traps, you’ll get ghosted or friend-zoned. But if you FIX these flirting mistakes, you'll start making sparks fly and find your dream girlfriend. Dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 10 most common flirting mistakes men make, and he gives you 10 instant fixes—so you can flirt with confidence and authenticity, with ZERO pickup-artist sleaziness. Listen now! FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3 READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend Quotes "All it took was a bit of small talk, sharing our names, our stories, our vulnerabilities—simple steps to meaningful connections.”-Connell Barnett" Spice up conversations by discussing your loves and hates, adding depth and interest to your dialogue."- Connell Barnett Featured in the episode Connell Barrett Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation Website: https://datingtransformation.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation Chapters 00:00 - Introduction 01:52 - Mastering Confident Flirting: Tips to Captivate and Attract 05:06 - Delicately Inquiring About Her Kissing Preferences 09:03 - Elevate Your Dating Journey: Embrace Confidence Coaching 10:44 - Timing Matters: Appreciation Interplays with Woman's Perception 15:11 - Authenticity in Communication: Keeping It Genuine, Vulnerable 18:10 - Embracing Innocence: How a Pure Approach Resonates 20:55 - The Power of Physical Touch in Flirting: Balancing Calibration 25:30 - Flattery: Finding the Sweet Spot for Genuine Connection 28:37 - Playful Banter: Teasing and Joking with Subtle Accusations 32:01 - Emotional Depth: Initiating Connections through Feelings 36:23 - Unwind and Engage: Let Your Authentic Self Guide Conversations 37:22 - Mastering Conversations: Navigating with the 80 20 Rule 38:40 - Outro Powered by Heartcastmedia
    Played 38m 59s
  • Ask the Dating Coach: “HELP! A Catfish Has My Nude Pics and is Blackmailing me for $1,000!”

    12 APR 2024 · Have you ever been scammed or catfished on a dating app? It’s infuriating and scary! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett advises an unlucky guy who’s being “sextorted” for $1,000 by a scammer from a dating app. Plus, Connell helps a lonely listener get over the bitterness and resentment he feels toward women. Listen now! FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3 READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend Quotes "Confidently approach women, excel on dating apps, charm effortlessly, and attract your dream partner.”.-Connell Barnett "Embrace challenges as pathways to growth, not obstacles to success."- Connell Barnett Featured in the episode Connell Barrett Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation Website:https://datingtransformation.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation Chapters 00:00 - Introduction 00:49 - Unveiling a Scam Linked to Explicit Photos on a Dating App 03:53 - Avoiding Blackmail: How to Safeguard Your Privacy 04:32 - Reporting Evidence to Stop Sextortion and Promote Awareness 07:12 - Martin's Journey: Overcoming Bitterness in the Search for Love 10:44 - Pain to Purpose: Lessons from Viktor Frankl's Masterpiece 12:40 - Transforming Dating Struggles into Growth: Insights from a Book 13:42 - Triumphing Over Personal Hurdles to Thrive as a Dating Coach 17:18 - Unlocking Personal Growth Through Dating Mastery 19:30 - Conquering Envy, Cultivating Growth, and Building Empathy with Women 20:35 - Understanding Women's Perspectives: Giving to Win Love 23:46 - Embrace Your True Self: Your Dream Girlfriend Awaits 24:00 - Outro Powered by Heartcastmedia
    Played 24m 18s
  • The NEW Way to Flirt with Women: 10 Tested Tips to Make Sparks Fly

    8 APR 2024 · If you aren’t sure how to talk to women… if you run out of things to say… if dates end with you trapped in the “friend zone,” then this is the episode for you. Connell is about to give you the secret weapon to STOP running out of things to say and START confidently flirting with cool, cute girls. It’s called Man-to-Woman Communication, a powerful, turbo-charged way of romantically connecting with women. Your dating life is about to change. Listen now! FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3 READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend Quotes "When sparks fly between two people, mastering 'man to woman communication' ensures consistent romantic connections.”.-Connell Barnett "Playfully tease to create attraction, but avoid sensitive topics like appearance, family, job, or pets."- Connell Barnett Featured in the episode Connell Barrett Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation Website:https://datingtransformation.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation Chapters 00:00 - Inrtoduction 00:48 - Unveiling Connell Barrett's Secret Flirting Formula 05:51 - Igniting Romantic Connections Through Flirting 09:23 - Categorizing Women's Encounters into Three Frames 10:46 - Booking a Free Dating Coaching Call 14:06 - Balancing Communication: Sincerity and Flirtatious Elements 18:12 - Subtly Appreciating Non-Physical Traits 20:06 - Enhancing Voice Projection Techniques 23:03 - Connecting through Gaze: The Key to Impress on First Dates 24:06 - Unexpected Sparks on an Intense First Date 26:06 - Navigating Playful Teasing: Building Attraction Without Offense 29:15 - Subtle Physical Expressions and Reciprocation Awareness 31:56 - Infusing Fun and Playfulness into Dating Communication 33:24 - Outro Powered by Heartcastmedia
    Played 33m 42s
  • Ask the Dating Coach: ‘I’m Short! Should I Have My Legs Broken to Help Me Get Dates?’

    26 MAR 2024 · Are you five-feet-eight or shorter? Does that make you feel less confident around tall, attractive women? Do you struggle on the apps because you feel women want taller guys? In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett helps you fix those issues. How? By coaching a lonely, five-foot-five listener who’s considering a drastic step: breaking and lengthening his legs to become more attractive to women. If you’re on the shorter side and you want to confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend, this is the episode for you. Listen now! FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3 READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend Quotes "Women seek a confident, authentic man who values and cherishes them, regardless of height”.-Connell Barnett "Build a strong sense of self-worth beyond height. Discover ten unique qualities that make you a great catch."- Connell Barnett Featured in the episode Connell Barrett Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation Website:https://datingtransformation.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation Chapters 00:00 - Introduction 00:00 - Connell Barrett, Dating Coach, Tackles Height Hurdles. 06:18 - Rise in Leg-Lengthening Procedures for Men. 08:18 - Building Confidence to Attract Your Ideal Women. 12:20 - Height: An Asset, Not a Dating Prerequisite. 16:35 - Most Women Find Height Inconsequential. 19:12 - Enhanced Profiles Yield Dating Triumphs. 21:19 - Boost Confidence, Showcase Yourself, Attract Opportunities. 23:21 - Outro Powered by Heartcastmedia
    Played 23m 39s
  • How to Get Over a Breakup, with ‘Letting Go of Your Ex’ author Cortney Warren

    22 MAR 2024 · Have you ever had a painful breakup? Have you been so obsessed with your ex that you didn’t want to date? Have you felt, “I’ll never find someone as good as her”? Today’s special guest can help! Dr. Cortney S. Warren is a bestselling author, clinical psychologist and an expert in getting over a bad breakup. Cortney joins Connell in this episode to share simple, powerful tips from her bestselling book, “Letting Go of Your Ex: CBT Skills to Heal the Pain of a Breakup and Overcome Love Addiction.” She also offers some practical advice to help you overcome heartache and find someone NEW to share your life with. It’s time to let go of pain, heal your heart, and find someone as wonderful as you are… and do it with authenticity! Listen to Cortney and Connell’s deep, insightful conversation now. FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3 READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend Quotes "Thinking about your ex is normal. Yet obsessing over them during dating as a distraction can prevent you from forming new meaningful connections."- Cortney Warren "Intense love mixed with past traumas can impact relationships significantly. Self-awareness is key to navigating these complexities."-Cortney Warren Featured in the episode Connell Barrett Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation Website: https://datingtransformation.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation Featured Guest Cortney Warren Website: http://www.drcortney.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcortneywarren/ Chapters 00:00 - Introduction 04:24 - Influences of Past Relationships on Future Actions 08:23 - Growth and Authenticity Post-Breakup 10:55 - Resilience and Recovery after Heartbreak 14:47 - Embracing Grief to Achieve Acceptance 17:20 - Gratitude: A Pathway to Moving Beyond Past Relationships 21:01 - Dating as a Catalyst for Personal Development 24:43 - Navigating Intimacy Challenges Stemming from Trauma 28:59 - Coping with Heartbreak and Relationship Advice 30:18 - Seeking Genuine Connections Based on Values and Chemistry 36:18 - Prioritizing Fun Over Perfection in Dating 37:55 - Transforming Disempowering Questions to Empowering Ones 42:01 - The Role of Physical Touch in Enhancing Bonding and Love 44:49 - Authenticity as a Precious Asset in the Dating Scene 46:11 - Conclusion Powered by Heartcastmedia
    Played 49m 54s
  • How NOT to Be Creepy: The 7 Mistakes Men Make that Creep Women Out

    18 MAR 2024 · You want to meet wonderful women, make some moves, and get those sparks flying, right? But what if you do or say something creepy, and she rejects you? That would hurt. No one wants to feel like a creep. Here’s some help. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett counts down The top 7 things that men do that make women go “Eww!” Are you making any of these common, creepy mistakes? Listen now to find out, fix it, and start dating some wonderful women. FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3 Quotes "There's a time to be persistent, but when a woman isn't interested, graciously move on." - Connell Barrett Featured in the episode Connell Barrett Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation Website:https://datingtransformation.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation Chapters 00:00 - Introduction03:42 - Navigating the Perception of Creepiness with Composure 06:43 - Truth vs. Fiction: Struggles with Deceit and Discomfort 07:23 - Shedding the Mask for Lasting Connections 04:09 - Gratitude shift: "Not me, the friendly guy over there" 09:51 - Impact of potato chip consumption on pickup artist success 12:33 - Addressing inappropriate touching and respect 15:49 - Pitfalls of objectifying women with body comments 18:14 - Spooky first date objectification story 20:42 - The Threefold Approach of Persistence, Charm, and Empathy 23:29 - Importance of honesty and avoiding manipulation 24:32 - Emphasizing honesty in dating and daily life 25:19 - OutroProduced by Heartcastmedia
    Played 28m 47s
  • 5 “Aha!” Moments that Took Me from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women

    12 MAR 2024 · The reason dating coach Connell Barrett can fix any dating problem is because he had EVERY dating problem—and he overcame them. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 5 game-changing “Aha!” moments he experienced that helped him get great at flirting, approach women with confidence, escape the Friend Zone, and more. Listen now! FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3 Quotes "I used to believe playing it safe was smart. However, in dating and relationships, safety is risky and risky is safe." -Connell Barrett Featured in the episode Connell Barrett Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation Website:https://datingtransformation.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation Chapters 00:00 - Taking Risks in Dating Is Surprisingly Safe 05:09 - Courageous Moves: Man Gambles on First Date 06:12 -  The Safe Bet on Taking Risks in Dating Approaches 07:18 - Bold Gesture: Risking Rejection by Tapping Her Shoulder 12:11 - Embrace Authenticity: Not Everyone Will Connect with You 15:15 - Transforming Fear into Confidence in Dating Encounters 16:37 - Genuine Connections: Sincere Communication Over Flirtatious Behaviors 18:00 - The Art of Flirting: Balancing Sincerity with Playfulness 20:58 - Unleashing Playfulness in Relationships 21:31 - Playful Dynamics: Debunking Dating Myths Online and Offline 24:40 - Substance Over Style: Personality Draws in High-Quality Partners 26:11 - Outro Produced by Heartcastmedia
    Played 29m 13s

The Dating Transformation podcast helps men overcome self-doubt and attract their dream girlfriends, by being truly authentic. It's about finding love as the best, most real you. Welcome to the...

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The Dating Transformation podcast helps men overcome self-doubt and attract their dream girlfriends, by being truly authentic. It's about finding love as the best, most real you.

Welcome to the Dating Transformation podcast, where we help single guys gain confidence, get more dates, and find their dream girlfriend.

If you’re a single guy who lacks confidence or dates, you’re in the right place! Dating coach Connell Barrett—author of the No. 1 Amazon bestselling book “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”—is here to offer you three things:

1: Confidence with wonderful women
2: Tested dating tips and strategies
3: A practical plan to attract your dream girlfriend

Bonus? You’ll learn to date with "radical authenticity," and zero creepy “pickup artist” tricks. Because women like you for YOU.

Join Connell and his expert guests every week, so you can gain confidence and find your dream girlfriend.
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