We must understand the uniqueness of our spouse to be able to communicate at a deeper level. There are eight Biblical questions we should ask: "Where are you?", "Who told you?", "Have you eaten from the forbidden tree?", "What have you done?", "Where have you come from?", and "Where are you going?", "Who are you?", and "What is it you really want?" In other words, Do you want to be who, where and what God planned for you to be?