Proverbs 18:20 in the NLT says:“Wise words satisfy like a good meal; the right words bring satisfaction.”Today’s Episode: Say It While He Can Hear ItFathers are funny.We’ll give a complete stranger a whole scouting report on our son—his work ethic, his character, everything he has overcome. Then our son walks into the room and all we say is, “You good?” And son says, “Yep.” And we be like, “Aight.”Sir, bring that whole speech home!Today is my son Jordan’s birthday, so let me practice what I preach:Jordan, I’m so proud of you—not only for what you do, but for the man you are and the man you’re becoming. I still remember the first time I held you and looked into your face. The only thing greater than that moment is seeing you now at 29 and watching the miracle that is you come into full bloom. I love you. Happy birthday, son.There. I said it while he could hear it.Proverbs 18:20 in the NLT says:“Wise words satisfy like a good meal; the right words bring satisfaction.”If words are food, too many sons are straight starving.They know Dad loves them—probably. They know Dad is proud—hopefully. But why should somebody have to reconstruct your love from clues when you can simply open your mouth?Now, this proverb isn’t saying words are magic. A compliment cannot substitute for presence, consistency, apology or repair.But words are fruit. And whatever we keep feeding a relationship is what that relationship learns to live on.Before Jesus preached a sermon or performed a public miracle, the Father openly named His love and delight in His Son. God’s love wasn’t wages for performance. Fatherly blessing shouldn’t be either.And listen, if you never received that kind of affirmation, I’m not minimizing the wound. Some people had to hear their father’s finest words from somebody else. Some didn’t hear them at all.But by grace, the famine can stop with us.We can feed our children what we went hungry for.We can tell the people we love what we see in them while they can still carry those words into tomorrow.Don’t save your finest sentences for somebody’s funeral. Give people their flowers while they still have noses!Legacy isn’t only what you leave behind. It’s what you place inside people while you’re still here.So, happy birthday, Jordan Malik Benjamin Lynch!And to every parent, mentor, spouse and friend listening: don’t make love play hide-and-seek.Say the good thing.Say it clearly.Say it while they can hear it.🔥 REMEMBERSay the good thing while love can still hear it.🙏🏽 PRAYERFather, teach me to nourish others with honest words today.🎯 TODAY’S CHALLENGEBefore today ends, tell somebody exactly why you’re proud of them. No vague “Love ya.” Name the character you see, and say it out loud.About the AuthorFred Lynch is a creative communicator, author, and Christian Hip Hop pioneer. To learn more about Fred and what he’s up to now…click here or you can find him in all the socials by searching the handle: heyfredlynch📱 Experience Proverbs Daily by Subscribing!Ready to receive daily wisdom directly on your phone?Go to proverbsdaily.org for the app or just click that Subscribe button right now!

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