Most people learned sex from awkward conversations, bad lovers, Hollywood, porn, or complete silence.

Then we wonder why so many women think they don't enjoy sex... and so many men are terrified of losing an erection.

In this episode, Tanja and Suzy open the toy drawer, the science books, and a few conversations most couples never have.

They talk pelvic floors that are actually too tight, why doing more Kegels can make leaking worse, lubricants, arousal oils, mouth-watering mints (yes, really), vaginal probiotics, menopause, body image, performance anxiety, and why slowing everything down might completely change your sex life.
Then the conversation goes somewhere much deeper.

Why have we made intercourse the main event?

Why do women stay silent about what actually feels good?

Why do men believe their erection determines their worth?

And why are so many couples performing sex instead of experiencing it?

This episode is about becoming more curious, more honest, and far less attached to the script we've all been handed.

Because the best lovers aren't the ones who know all the moves. They're the ones who keep learning.
Curiosity required. Shame can stay outside.


Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

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Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.