This is a great question. Sherri feels that the church should be a gracious place to fail, and we agree. You're allowed to be wrong. If we're having a challenging situation with another believer BUT both agree that Jesus is Lord and our final authority, then it forces us to say "God correct me if I'm wrong." and if we're both praying that with humility, then we're probably going to end up in the right place. Listen for more great wisdom on this.