As always a hugely enjoyable show from a podcast I adore. I did have multiple issues with the criticisms within though.
I don't think Sam sees himself as a hero. He dreams of being one which is different. I don't see him being selfish as a problem. That just makes him a more believable three dimensional hero. I don't see Jill falling in love with him as problematic as he shows her he's a good man with a good heart and it doesn't matter that he doesn't help people until she tells him to because he's lot a unconvincing perfect hero he's a real flawed man.