In this episode of the Odd Mom Pod, Brittany chats with Jess, who she met through an online support group, and how their relationship has evolved over the years. This conversation focuses on Jess' transformation from a traditional homemaker to a progressive parent advocating non-traditional thinking styles. Brittany discusses the challenges she faced while discovering her sexuality and gender identity and how her friend Jess has helped her through this journey. Additionally, Jess provides insight into her polyamorous relationships, highlighting how they enhance her personal growth and parenting approach. The discussion also dives into societal and religious pressures, dismantling the traditional model of monogamy, and the importance of being true to oneself, all while raising children in a more informed and accepting world.
Resources:
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy: written by Jessica Fern
Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good: written by Adrienne Maree Brown
00:02 Introduction to the Odd Mom Pod
00:38 Getting to Know Jess: A Friendship Story
01:40 Jess's Childhood and Early Life
02:33 Parenting Perspectives: Crafts, Creativity, and Childhood
04:31 Exploring Sexuality and Gender Identity
05:53 Questioning Religion and Embracing Queerness
07:36 Coming Out and Navigating Relationships
10:56 Parenting as a Queer Individual
17:54 Exploring Polyamory and Navigating Separation
25:42 Exploring Relationship Anarchy
26:24 The Power of Openness in Relationships
28:32 Challenging the Norms of Monogamy
29:28 The Impact of Open Relationships on Friendships
30:29 Redefining Love and Relationships
32:13 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Parenting
32:24 The Upsides of Co-Parenting
38:03 Exploring Polyamory
40:31 Parenting in a Polyamorous Relationship
49:47 The Joy of Self-Discovery and Pleasure Activism
52:45 Conclusion: Embracing the Odd in Parenting