Bear in mind that the target audience for this book is men. And I realize by saying that, women will become curious. So if you decide to listen. Hang in there til the end! This chapter drives home the importance of our personality matching our appearance. And so while I encourage you to be you, this might then require you to beat your appearance into submission. Don't assume your inside and outside match! If you're struggling with relationships, odds are good that there is a glaring mismatch that must be addressed.