Lets be honest. The majority of what we do is put into play is either to one up a coworker or family member or to do all you can to keep up with the Jones'. I spend a lot of time writing about the whereabouts of where we are only to come face to face with the continuation of a circle. Challenge your self to stop seeking that golf clap. Urge your dark times to seek something other than another persons acceptance. Teaching your needs to locate a truer light allows the inner core of your personality to breathe again.