God's will for us is Love; perfect happiness, and the way to know this and experience living in His Grace is to align with His Will and allow ourselves to be Guided in every aspect of life. To only allow Spirit into some areas of life is to put limits on Love.
The undoing of the self concept and the belief in an external world happens through allowing Spirit to be our reference point, rather than the world.
Being present with whatever is arising in consciousness leads to deeper awareness of Self.

David, Kirsten, Ricki and Helena in North Carolina