nvitations are received at all times but they are categorized suchh as : Exciting, Interesting, Boring or avoidable.  Yet we tend to take unecessary risks in choosing to go to the Wrong places, with the Wrong people, @ the Wrong time and sometimes in the Wrong state of mind.  Worst we expect different positive results under these Wrong conditions. 

Is there a better formula ?  and if there is...? and we know there is... Why do we ignore the Right thing just to do the Wrong thing  over & over again ?