Your number one priority should be yourself. Consider yourself as the seed that must grow deep roots, develop branches,and then bare fruits for everyone else to enjoy.
Setting good priorities sets your life in order too, because misaligned priorities can lead to sadness, blamefulness, regrets, mental health, exertion, physical burnout, poor livelihood, and so much more. If your goal is to become financially free, and all you do is prioritise new clothes and shoes, hanging out in bars, burning cash instead of saving cash,not investing, you just may never become financially independent.