When you've just heard the words "I want a divorce" or "we need to separate" "I need space" or "I'm not in love with you", you have only ONE effective choice to make...that choice is to learn something and grow from it.

I know your first instinct is to scream, argue, analyze, investigate and FIX things so you can get back to your regularly scheduled program. Here's a message from the Emergency Broadcast System:

It's too late. You're already into a new program. The old program has been cancelled.
You have to look at this differently - Change your thoughts and you will change your reality.

What if you took responsibility for every ounce of how you're thinking and behaving? How might that change the nature of your day and those around you?