4 DEC 2023 · Nicole grew up in a hyper-religious family – except, as her parents were from different religious factions there was no agreement about which was the right one to follow or the right way to live life. This created a great […] The post https://peoplebuilding.co.uk/passing-to-the-other-side-nicole-kerr-extraordinary-people/ appeared first on https://peoplebuilding.co.uk.

3 AUG 2023 · My Missing Pieces: David Richman – ExtraOrdinary People In his late 30’s, David was a stressed-out, overweight, smoker. He married an abusive alcoholic, with 4-year-old twins.  Domestic violence is often thought of as something that men perpetrate and women are […] The post https://peoplebuilding.co.uk/my-missing-pieces-david-richman/ appeared first on https://peoplebuilding.co.uk.

23 JUN 2023 · Gemma Bailey is an entrepreneur, franchisor, trainer, therapist, author and podcaster who specialises in NLP and Hypnotherapy as the primary modalities of her work.  For the last 2-years, she was secretly embarking on a new venture that not only stretched […] The post https://peoplebuilding.co.uk/against-all-odds-gemma-bailey-extraordinary-people/ appeared first on https://peoplebuilding.co.uk.

15 MAY 2023 · After developing a successful business and living in a long marriage, Bill Heinrich walked out on his life. Expecting a journey of self-discovery, he found himself crying in the foetal position on the floor for 3 days. Bill realised his […] The post https://peoplebuilding.co.uk/life-went-out-of-control-bill-heinrich-extraordinary-people/ appeared first on https://peoplebuilding.co.uk.

2 MAR 2023 · Matthew is a man with a moral compass that has caused him to become an advocate for others in challenging circumstances. Following a difficult upbringing with alcoholic parents, Matthew was homeless by the age of 17. This caused a revaluation […] The post https://peoplebuilding.co.uk/life-after-the-military-matthew-rainwater-extraordinary-people/ appeared first on https://peoplebuilding.co.uk.

21 DEC 2022 · Caroline has always identified as a drinker of alcohol. She was not only the one who rallied everyone to have shots, she was the one who got everyone at the bar to begin with! In 2013/2014, her husband had a […] The post https://peoplebuilding.co.uk/my-10-million-year-old-break-up-caroline-holke-extraordinary-people/ appeared first on https://peoplebuilding.co.uk.

4 DEC 2022 · Michael Herst always knew he would work in law enforcement. It wasn’t just a job, it was a way of life that fully underpinned his identity. He was drawn to this by way of positive rebellion – he came from […] The post https://peoplebuilding.co.uk/losing-my-identity-michael-hurst-extraordinary-people/ appeared first on https://peoplebuilding.co.uk.

11 AUG 2021 · Links from today’s show: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Primary_and_secondary_gain  https://www.researchgate.net/publication/7591455_Secondary_gain_as_hidden_motive_for_getting_psychiatric_treatment  https://www.unk.com/blog/how-to-deal-with-secondary-gains Secondary gain is often unconscious and the patient is unaware that they are capitalising on the benefits of having a problem. If it is a benefit that the patient is aware of (and deliberately fabricating or creating in order to benefit) this is known as malingering.  Secondary gain is very difficult (especially for those using NLP) to identify but if you have some strong suspicions here are some strategies to help deal with it.  Watch on Youtube here:  https://youtu.be/JaGd9o1npi0 Missed the previous show? Doing the Right Thing Can be found here: https://youtu.be/jmQ3SGelf6U  or on iTunes here:  https://apple.co/38wk5as   ----------------------------***---------------------------- SNAPCHAT - peoplebuilding Subscribe to my Channel here - http://www.youtube.com/peoplebuilding  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/peoplebuilding  Instagram - http://instagram.com/peoplebuilding  Twitter - https://twitter.com/peoplebuilding     PuiMI9nzZs4qgaJ2gqZZ

11 JUL 2021 · The Trolly Problem: The Trolly Problem Wikipedia Page Are there any firm rules on how to do the right thing? Does it come down to considering the ecology of a situation and continuing to do right even if it feels wrong? Perhaps deciding what is right comes from thinking forwards to explore the longer-term ramifications of a decision. But is there always a black and white solution to help you choose the right way forward. Psychology would show us that the best indicator about how a person might act in the future is to look at their past behaviours. In considering what the right thing is for someone else, we can at least consider other similar scenarios and use those as a guide as to what the consequences may be. Watch on Youtube here: https://youtu.be/jmQ3SGelf6U Missed the previous show? Stop Taking Things Personally Can be found here: https://youtu.be/zAwgUEXvaZo or on iTunes here: https://apple.co/38wk5as ----------------------------***---------------------------- SNAPCHAT - peoplebuilding Subscribe to my Channel here - http://www.youtube.com/peoplebuilding Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/peoplebuilding Instagram - http://instagram.com/peoplebuilding

19 JUN 2021 · Do you struggle to stop yourself from taking things personally? Here is the Ted Talk by Frederik Imbo: https://youtu.be/LnJwH_PZXnM Sometimes it’s difficult to shake off the feeling that it’s about you - even when you logically know it’s not! Today we’re going to explore some strategies to help you when you’ve taken something to heart and need to move on.  In addition, it’s worth exploring why something has affected you - maybe because at some level you know it is true. But maybe it’s not truly about you and in fact, about the other person.  In order to maintain your worth you need to have high self-esteem, self-worth, self-confidence etc. Developing a thick skin and being able to dust yourself off requires all those important ‘selfs’ to be in good condition  Watch on Youtube here: https://youtu.be/zAwgUEXvaZo   Missed the previous show? The 5 Factor Model & Hexaco Can be found here: https://youtu.be/HRPD9PjHT_k or on iTunes here: https://apple.co/38wk5as