11 JUN 2023 · Codependency Painful Emotional Dangers Rooted In Family Systems Re-Enacted In Adult Relationships People with Codependency, more often than not, re-enact core childhood woundness from Family Sytems in Family of Origin in adulthood with people with BPD or NPD especially in significant other relationships. You need to focus on you now and your patterns and what you need to heal not continue to focus on a Borderline or a Narcissist and recycling relationship breakups with them which is only you repeating your multi-layered trauma and increasing your pain and loss of self.

24 DEC 2022 · Codependency has its roots in a childhood trauma response to varying degrees for people who have Codependency. People cannot heal from Codependency and/or the trauma bonded relationships with CLuster B's without a trauma-based and trauma informed healing and recovery process working with ana expert in this area. The Codependent's Anonymous 12 Step program or other 12 step programs are not designed for the depthy of the process to heal your codependency. The 12 step groups are not the way to go and certainly not something to choose instead of working with an expert in your reccovery process.

10 DEC 2022 · Codependency 12 Core Signs that indicate codependency and understanding the dysfunctional relational patterns of Codependency that have their causation in childhood woundedness.

17 JUL 2022 · Codependency is Rooted in Childhood - It's Not Your Fault - Why you have Codependency is not your fault because nothing is ever a child's fault. It is your responsibility now to get into therapy to heal and recover and find and know yourself in an independent way for the first time in your life.

3 JUL 2022 · AJ Mahari outlines several key core challenges in Codependency that are must know. How codependents are thinking, feeling, behaving and why. Must know info that doesn't even yet get into the traits of codependency.

2 JUL 2022 · Codependency Overview - Codependency is complicated due to its definition being left in a limbo place of confusion says A.J. Mahari Codependence is it a personality disorder or not and why is it, in some circles being more pathologized? Will this hurt or help more people to learn about their own codependency?

2 JUL 2022 · Codependency a Personality Disorder? When "Love" Wounds The Enabler - An examination of how a psychiatrist in the mid-1980's proposed Codependent Personality Disorder to the DSM 3 working group - why it wasn't included in the DSM, still has not been and what does that mean for how to define and understand Codependency. It has outdated definitions as well. AJ Mahari talks about how Codependency is a painful mental health challenge. Does it need to be pathologized to be better understood? Does Codependency need a more across the board definition and understanding to effectively help people identify with it to be able to heal?

26 APR 2021 · Episode 1 of the Codependency Recovery Podcast, with your host A.J. Mahari, delves into the history, controversy, and trauma recovery lens of Codependency. With 30 years experience working with clients in their codependency recovery Counsellor and Trauma Recovery Coach A.J. Mahari has her own experience and methodology of helping you heal and recover.