2 MAY 2015 · Excerpt from my show: I’ve often heard people say “He, who FINDS a wife, FINDS a GOOD THING” and I must say, I couldn’t agree more with this statement. Now, if you notice, I have laid emphasis on 2 words in that sentence. The first one is "FINDS” please note that it says "He “who finds... and not "She" who finds....This means that men are expected to find us, and not the other way around.......