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The Becoming You Show with Leah Roling: Inspire, Impact, & Influence Your Life

  • 118: Embracing Authenticity-Breaking Free from the 'Fine' Facade

    19 APR 2024 · Join us on a journey to uncover the hidden truth behind the societal addiction to being "fine." In today's fast-paced world, we've been conditioned to dismiss our true emotions with the blanket label of "fine." But what lies beneath this facade of emotional numbness? How has this addiction to being "fine" disconnected us from our authentic selves and hindered our ability to connect with others on a deeper level?   Join us today as we delve into the why behind the "fine" phenomenon, exploring its destructive nature and the profound impact it has on our relationships, leadership, and overall well-being. We challenge the notion that being "fine" is the only acceptable state and invite you to embrace the full spectrum of human emotions.   Through candid discussions and thought-provoking insights, we offer practical strategies to break free from the "fine" addiction and reconnect with your true feelings. Imagine a life where you're not confined by the need to appear "fine" but instead, embrace your authentic nature, whatever that may be.   If you're ready to peel back the layers of societal conditioning and rediscover the richness of your emotional landscape, then this podcast is for you. Join us as we explore what it truly means to be alive, vulnerable, and authentically human.   Watch Here: https://youtu.be/LwEMfoGH7aE  
    28m 19s
  • 117: False Resilience -Navigating the Depths of "Enough"

    12 APR 2024 · Join us to today as we explore and dive deep into the intriguing concept of "enough." This is a conversation you are not going to want to miss.  Understanding the nuanced distinctions between being in flow and merely existing in a state of comfort is imperative. Have you ever found yourself believing that overwhelm or anxiety is essential for accomplishment? We uncover the truth behind this common misconception and how it often leads us astray. Despite seeming resilient, this mindset can actually act as a form of resistance, hindering our growth and fulfillment. As leaders, whether we lead teams, families, movements, organizations or only ourselves, it's crucial to recognize the dangers of false resilience. When we chase an elusive notion of "enough," we risk falling into a trap of external reliance, ultimately leading to frustration and anxiety. Join us as we navigate through these complex dynamics and discover how to redefine "enough" in a way that fosters true fulfillment and leadership. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking conversation that challenges conventional wisdom and inspires personal growth. Tune in now to gain invaluable insights and perspectives!
    30m 46s
  • 116. The Relationship Factor: The Key to Goal Success

    5 APR 2024 · Join us as we unravel the science behind why so many of us struggle to enact lasting change in our lives.  We are going to explore human behavior change and the intricate interplay between our aspirations and our conditioning.   From the moment we're born, we're shaped by our environment and upbringing, ingraining patterns of behavior that often conflict with our desires for growth and fulfillment. This inherent tension between our innate aspirations and our learned conditioning forms the crux of our journey towards personal transformation.   In this podcast, we delve into the psychological and neurological mechanisms that underpin our resistance to change, shedding light on why simply setting goals isn't always enough to catalyze meaningful progress. In this conversation we uncover the hidden barriers that hinder our path to success, from subconscious beliefs to deeply ingrained habits.   Join us as we navigate the complexities of human behavior change, offering practical strategies and empowering perspectives to help you break free from the limitations of your conditioning. Discover how to harness the power of intentionality, cultivate resilience in the face of adversity, and unlock your true potential for growth and transformation.   Watch Here: https://youtu.be/4-sw18fGP64  
    29m 8s
  • 115 - Living in the Land of Maybe

    29 MAR 2024 · Join me today as I dive deep into the realm of decision-making and explore why we make it so hard for ourselves. Decisions are the foundation of our power, yet we often find ourselves paralyzed by indecision, trapped in the Land of Maybe. We are going to unpack the psychology behind our reluctance to make decisions. Spoiler alert: it all comes down to our aversion to adversity. By avoiding making decisions, we shield ourselves from potential discomfort and adversity, but at what cost? I am excited to share with you a practical 5-step framework for making decisions confidently. Whether you're deciding what to have for dinner or contemplating life-altering choices, this framework will empower you to take decisive action and reclaim your power. Tune in to discover how to break free from the cycle of indecision and step boldly into the realm of confident decision-making. Don't let the Land of Maybe hold you back any longer—embrace the power of decisions and watch your life transform.   Watch Here: https://youtu.be/XIXXleZgG6I  
    29m 9s
  • 114: The Two Ways to Win: Fundamentals and Evidence

    22 MAR 2024 · In today's groundbreaking episode, we're diving into a game-changing discussion on "The Two Ways to Win." This isn't just about sports; it's about life, decisions, and the actions we take or don't take. We're exploring how mastering the fundamentals and collecting the "right" evidence can radically alter our path to success. So often, we find ourselves boxed in by our past experiences or the limited perspectives of others. We live life based on predictability, missing out on the vast possibilities that lie ahead. But what if we told you that the key to unlocking an unpredictable and victorious future lies in understanding and applying two simple principles? Using the dynamic world of basketball as our metaphor, we're going to show you how these principles apply not just on the court but in every aspect of life. Don't worry if you're not a sports enthusiast; the analogies we're drawing are universal, speaking to the heart of human ambition and potential.   Join us as we dissect how getting the fundamentals right sets the foundation for success, and how shifting our focus to collect the "right" evidence can reveal opportunities and wins that were always there, just not visible through the lens of the past. Prepare to have your mind blown as we weave through analogies, real-life applications, and insights that will challenge you to view your wins, not as products of what was once possible, but as manifestations of what is yet to come. It's time to redefine winning on your terms.    Watch Here: https://youtu.be/QvgxVVgaCiI  
    27m 20s
  • 113: Embracing the Hidden Treasures: The Power of Negative Emotions

    15 MAR 2024 · Join us today for an emotional deep dive like no other. We're not just scratching the surface of feelings; we're drilling down to the very core of our emotional being. Get ready to challenge everything you've ever been taught about emotions and how they've been silently dictating the trajectory of your life. If you're stuck in a rut, whether it's with your finances, your fitness goals, your business, or your personal relationships, this episode is your wake-up call.   We're exploring the unspoken truth about emotions and their profound impact on creating - or stifling - progress in every aspect of our lives. From earning and managing money, to forging deeper connections in our relationships, to achieving our healthiest selves, our feelings are the unsung heroes (or villains) behind our successes and failures.   This episode is an invitation to revolutionize your relationship with your emotions. We're turning conventional wisdom on its head, revealing how a deeper understanding and acceptance of our feelings can be the catalyst for real, tangible change. If you've ever felt hindered by your emotions, trapped in a cycle of unfulfillment, or simply curious about the true power of emotional intelligence, you won't want to miss this.   Join us as we uncover the secret to unlocking the full potential of your life, one feeling at a time. It's time to redefine our relationship with our emotions and harness them as the powerful tools they are meant to be. Let's dive in and discover the emotional keys to unlocking a life of progress, fulfillment, and unparalleled success.
    29m 36s
  • 112: Gaining Clarity: Your Pathway to Progress

    8 MAR 2024 · Welcome to today's episode where we shine a light on Clarity - the beacon that guides us out of doubt and confusion and onto the path of progress.  Do you ever find yourself trapped in a haze of procrastination, hesitating at the crossroads of life's countless decisions? Are you tired of feeling like you're always consulting a committee before making any move, only to end up making no move at all? If this sounds like you, then you're in the right place.    Clarity is not just about knowing what to do next; it's about understanding who you are at your core. It's the key that unlocks the door to decisive action, freeing our minds from the shackles of indecision and distraction. When we possess clarity, we move forward with purpose, no longer tripped up by the obstacles of doubt or delay.   In this episode, we delve deep into the essence of clarity and its transformative power in our lives. We explore how gaining clarity in both our actions and our identity is the ultimate game changer, paving the way for progress and personal growth. The decisions we make - or fail to make - directly influence the trajectory of our lives. A lack of clarity doesn't just stall us; it can completely derail our journey.   Join us as we embark on a mission to reclaim clarity, to clear the fog that clouds our vision, and to make meaningful decisions that propel us forward. Here's to finding clarity, making decisions with confidence, and steering our lives back on the path to progress.
    30m 31s
  • 111: Unlocking Massive Energy: The Key to Living and Loving Your Life Fully

    1 MAR 2024 · Ever feel like you’re just going through the motions? In this energizing episode, we're diving deep into the crucial role of energy management in transforming our lives. Imagine waking up each day excited about the day, ready to take on the world with zest and zeal. Sounds like a dream? It's more achievable than you think. Energy is the golden thread that ties together every aspect of our existence. Without it, our thoughts become foggy, our relationships suffer, we neglect our well-being, and life’s challenges seem insurmountable.   But what if I told you there are just three key components to mastering your energy levels? And even more, there's one simple daily practice that can revolutionize your energy reserves, empowering you to live more fully and love more deeply. Whether you’re struggling to find the motivation for self-care, yearning for deeper connections, or simply looking to inject more joy into your daily routine, understanding and harnessing your energy is game changing.   Join us as we explore these transformative components and uncover the singular action you can start today to unlock boundless energy. Discover what’s been holding you back and how to propel yourself forward with vitality.  Get ready to unlock the secrets to living and loving your life all out, with the power of energy management.
    30m 15s
  • 110. The Good One Trap: Navigating Self-Sacrifice and Personal Growth

    23 FEB 2024 · Join us today in this eye-opening episode where we delve into the often overlooked dilemma of being "the good one" in our relationships and communities. We explore the subtle yet profound ways in which our desire to avoid upsetting others, prioritizing their feelings over our own, leads us down a path of resentment and bitterness. Why do we shoulder responsibilities, maintain peace, and take one for the team, often at the expense of our own well-being? The truth may surprise you: in many cases, we volunteer for this role, unconsciously relieving others of the responsibility to manage their own emotions, leaving us overwhelmed by theirs and ours alike. But here's the kicker - no one explicitly asked us to carry this burden, and if they did, the obligation to comply is a choice we make. This episode challenges listeners to recognize the trap of being "the good one" and provides insightful strategies for climbing out. It's not just about reclaiming your power; it's about fostering a healthier dynamic that encourages growth for both yourself and those around you. Join us as we explore the importance of setting boundaries, asserting your needs, and the transformative power of putting yourself first for a change. Embrace the journey of becoming not just "the good one" but "the authentic one.
    30m 59s
  • 109 Embracing Unworthiness: The First Step to Discovering Your True Worth

    16 FEB 2024 · In a world constantly shouting about self-worth and empowerment, the concept of embracing unworthiness might seem counterintuitive, even taboo. Yet, in this episode, we dive deep into the shadows of unworthiness, exploring why sometimes, to truly understand and believe in our worth, we first need to let in those feelings of unworthiness. The journey to self-worth is often portrayed as a straight path to believing in our inherent value. But what if the road less traveled, the one that invites us to confront and embrace our feelings of unworthiness, is actually the path to profound healing and genuine self-acceptance?   We unravel the complexities of unworthiness, discussing how our unconscious mind shields us from these feelings and why facing them head-on can be transformative. It's about more than just acknowledging these shadows; it's about welcoming them with open arms, understanding their origins, and recognizing how they've shaped our behaviors and beliefs. By embracing our unworthiness, we're not giving in to it; we're taking the first courageous step towards dismantling the shame and fear that keep these feelings hidden. We'll explore how unworthiness, left unaddressed, can fester into harmful patterns, impacting our lives in ways we might not even realize. You'll learn why letting unworthiness in is a crucial step in letting it go, and how this approach can lead to a more authentic, empowered life. Embrace the courage within and discover the transformative power of facing your unworthiness head-on.
    33m 34s

Welcome to The Becoming You Show with me, your host Leah Roling. Do you believe you are capable of choosing your future? Sometimes it takes just one person to believe...

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Welcome to The Becoming You Show with me, your host Leah Roling. Do you believe you are capable of choosing your future? Sometimes it takes just one person to believe in you, for you to believe in yourself. Allow me to be that person, I’m here to help you tap into your superpower. Your power to BECOME. If you find yourself continuing to say “someday, I will take better care of myself, only to continue living the same day over and over again, then you are in the right place! I am your biggest cheerleader, inspiring you to Become You, on purpose and with intention! Are you ready to create a life you love? I am excited to share with you some big ideas that you can use today to Inspire, Impact, and Influence your Life and everyone in it!

https://leahroling.com/
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