The key to being married happily ever after is embracing change and the different phases life and your relationship will bring your way. Part of the human experience is evolution, so it is only natural that the person you start dating today will not be the same person you are with 5 or 10 years from now. Life, age and experiences change us all, and knowing that makes it a little easier for you to navigate how to share your life with the same person for 20+ years. Lisa and Tom are sharing the challenges and strategies that helped them navigate Lisa’s transition from supportive housewife and CEO of Bilyeu Enterprises to hardcore, badass, co-founder and president of Impact Theory. The change was not easy but having this insight on how Lisa and Tom navigated uncharted territory may prepare you for the road ahead.

Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships.

SHOW NOTES:

Disruptive Change | How Lisa made big changes by inviting Tom into the solution [0:42]
Need to Change | How Lisa identified the need and desire to change [5:03]
Don’t Be Dismissive | How Lisa thought through not being dismissive of Tom’s feelings [10:01]
Foundation for Change | How Tom & Lisa’s foundation made her change possible [13:19]
Personality Change | Tom on how he was able to connect to Lisa’s personality change [15:37]
Finding Balance | How Lisa learned to pivot being hard in business and softer at home [22:32]


QUOTES:

“If you want someone [...] to be there when you're weak, you have to be honest about where you're weak.” Lisa Bilyeu [1:43]

“You either bring them in to be a helpful source, or you push them away and say, I can do this by myself.” Lisa Bilyeu [7:00]

“I want you to become whoever you want to become in order to be proud. And I want you to feel that you've become as powerful as you want to become.” Tom Bilyeu [21:49]