College years are typically a time of significant transformation. For many, it marks the initial taste of genuine autonomy, starting a path toward personal discovery. However, in 1976, this quest for self-understanding might have contributed to the disappearance of a college student.



Takeaways

• The old school thinking surrounding marijuana as a gateway drug may have hindered the private investigator's investigation into Brian's disappearance.
• The Salvation Army's Missing Person Department played a role in the search for Brian, but ultimately no new leads were uncovered.
• Speculation about Brian's relationship with Kim raises questions about possible shame and confusion surrounding his sexuality.
• The family's belief in Brian's eventual return and their ongoing search for answers highlight the emotional toll of a missing loved one.
• Investigating a cold case after many years presents significant challenges, including the difficulty of obtaining accurate information and the fading memories of witnesses.
• The case serves as a reminder to be compassionate and understanding towards individuals who may be struggling with their identity or facing societal pressures.
  Chapters
  
  00:00 Introduction
  
  01:24 The Under-Appreciated Crime of Stalking
  
  03:48 Acknowledging New Patreons
  
  05:03 Introduction to the Case of Brian Vargo
  
  08:02 Brian Vargo's Background and Personal Struggles
  
  09:03 Brian's Arrest and its Impact on Him
  
  10:09 Brian's Emotional State and Letters to Family
  
  11:07 Possible Reasons for Brian's Struggles
  
  14:51 Brian's Academic Decline and Decision to Drop Out
  
  19:18 Brian's Disappearance and Possible New Life
  
  26:31 Concerns and Efforts to Find Brian
  
  34:55 Private Investigator's Focus on Drug Involvement
  
  36:40 Old School Thinking
  
  37:09 Private Investigator Investigation
  
  37:41 Salvation Army's Investigation
  
  38:59 Speculation about Kim
  
  40:08 Possible Shame and Confusion
  
  42:52 Exploring Kim's Identity
  
  45:29 Family's Belief in Brian's Return
  
  49:46 Late Police Report
  
  50:23 Difficulty of Investigating After Many Years
  
  54:45 Hope for Brian's Well-being
  
  55:33 Contact Information for Tips
  
  56:05 Discussion on Privacy and Family's Need for Answers
  
  59:19 Hope for Brian's Message to His Family
  
  01:01:39 Dumb Criminal: Stolen ID
  
  Track: "Disappearing Memory", HUKU
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