When you learn to freely receive God's love, then you are able to love yourself which makes it possible for you to freely love others. When you understand that the blood of Jesus Christ has paid for all of your sins when you accept Him as your Lord & Master. This level of forgiveness requires you to openly forgive or you will not receive this forgiveness. God's love for you is unlimited! He sent His only begotten Son Jesus Christ for your salvation & eternal life! Reject Bondage!