This one came from the heart because decisions are sometimes forced upon you and I certainly been there am there. We all get forced to make decisions sometimes. Newton's first law states, An object at rest stays at rest and an object in motion stays in motion with the same speed and in the same direction unless acted upon by an unbalanced force. There are many unbalanced forces that act on us such as divorce, grief, or trauma. This goes into how and when to make decisions and how and when not make decisions.