Here is the after-movie discussion for The Family Stone. It's a beautiful movie for the relinquishment of judgement, letting go of perceived needs and allowing the Spirit to orchestrate what is most helpful for our healing. Jesus says in A Course in Miracles, "You never hate your brother for his sins, but only for your own." Holy relationship are the means given by the Spirit as a backdrop for forgiveness and an opportunity to experience the truth that "all things work together for good". (ACIM)