Isaiah 43:18-19 

“Remember not the former things, nor consider the things of old. Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.

We have cried and asked God, Why? over the span of our life time, but there are some things that will be with us for the rest of our life. We want to let it go but we may not have the understanidg of how to let it go. The word of God with the Holy Spirit can take the pain away and began to heal us in order to move forward in life. 

1 Peter 5:10   But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you.