In this episode Ben and I have on a dear friend names BEN as well!  Ben is a man who has stayed sober for 21 years and shares his story on the struggles that he had growing up as a gay man and how it fueled his addiction.  He also shares his struggles through recovery being a gay man and the REVELATION that he had 3 years into his recovery that changed everything for him!  If you have any questions about your specific situation you can email is at Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com