Divorced Parents have it rough.  In this episode of the Surviving Divorce Podcast I rehash some tips for divorced parents that were shared previously on the blog.
For All Divorced Parents:

Your children are hurting as much or more than you are
Don't try to get them to take sides
Your children still need two parents involved in their lives
Try to make major parenting decisions together
Be flexible with visitation schedules when possible
Give your kids as much say as possible on when they see their other parent
Your children will likely still have hopes of you re-uniting with your ex for years after the divorce
Your children may not be supportive of you dating
Your children don't want to hear you bad-mouthing their other parent
Your children don't want to be used as messengers
Don't over-extend yourself financially to maintain all of their pre-divorce activities and lifestyle.

For Custodial Parents:

Your children still love and miss the non-custodial parent
Keep the non-custodial parent informed of school, sports, and church events
Don't use the excuse that the child support was late for not doing things, even if that is the reason.

For Non-Custodial Parents:

Your children want to know you care by spending time with them
Your children are hurt deeply if you don't show up when you are supposed to
Don't substitute money or gifts for spending time with your children
Your children want you to come to their school, sports, or church activities
Your children want to hear from you regularly even if you can't be with them
You have a moral and legal obligation to pay child support. Just do it.
Don't expect all of your support money to be spent specifically on the kids, That's not how it works

This is the first in a series of podcasts dealing with divorced parents.  The podcasts in this series will probably be spread out over the next few months.

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Have a blessed week

G.D.