If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.---1 John 1:9 ESV 
 
And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.”--Mark 11:25 ESV 
 
 
14 For if you forgive others for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions.-Matthew 6:14-15 (NASB)
 
(And by the way, the blonde story is not mine, it was hypothetical.)
 
 
“Let today be the day you finally release yourself from the imprisonment of past grudges and anger. Simplify your life. Let go of the poisonous past and live the abundantly beautiful present... today"