One of the difficult realities of having adult children is you cannot make their decisions for them. John and Danny discuss why trying to rescue your child from poor decisions isn't helpful, and how to surround yourself with godly friends if your child is struggling. Featuring Allison Bottke.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2022-10-25?refcd=1521501Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/when-you-need-accountability/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: http://focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2022-10-25?refcd=1521501If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/