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I've realized beginning on day one of our life here on this planet we begin to be programmed. We are programmed by our parents, environment, and upbringing. That programming impacts our lives in every way possible. The programming impacts how we interrupt something said or an action done by another. The programming inspires the creation of who we are and how we act in every situation and every relationship. The impact on our romantic relationships is huge. Do we follow a codepedent program? How about instead the savior program? What about the victim program? Do we find ourselves proving our value to someone we are in a romantic relationship with because we were constantly proving our value to our parents? By listening to this podcast, you will begin to recognize the programming you possess and how it is impacting your life. You will also be able to identity other people's programming. This is very eye opening and helpful to understanding yourself and the people you spend the most time.

Do you want to achieve clarity and understanding into your relationship? Are you struggling to understand what is normal from previous programming and what is actually healthy? Do you feel you're losing yourself in the relationship and hoping to find stability and personal understanding? Would you like to understand why your spouse is treating you a specific way and would you like to gain personal power in the current relationship? Work one-on-one with me to explore, understand, and create full clarity. Schedule your first session with me today! https://www.ashleyberges.com/coaching-sessions

Are you in a relationship with someone who displays the signs and symptoms of BPD and you're working to understand how to navigate that relationship, you may want to look into taking my masterclass on living with someone with BPD. The master class offers you clarity and understanding to get out of the emotional blender and see yourself and the other person with clarity. It's time to stop questioning yourself, it's time to get your identity back. Get the information about the master class here: https://www.ashleyberges.com/bpdmasterclass
I've realized beginning on day one of our life here on this planet we begin to be programmed. We are programmed by our parents, environment, and upbringing. That programming impacts our lives in every way possible. The programming impacts how we interrupt something said or an action done by another. The programming inspires the creation of who we are and how we act in every situation and every relationship. The impact on our romantic relationships is huge. Do we follow a codepedent program? How about instead the savior program? What about the victim program? Do we find ourselves proving our value to someone we are in a romantic relationship with because we were constantly proving our value to our parents? By listening to this podcast, you will begin to recognize the programming you possess and how it is impacting your life. You will also be able to identity other people's programming. This is very eye opening and helpful to understanding yourself and the people you spend the most time. Do you want to achieve clarity and understanding into your relationship? Are you struggling to understand what is normal from previous programming and what is actually healthy? Do you feel you're losing yourself in the relationship and hoping to find stability and personal understanding? Would you like to understand why your spouse is treating you a specific way and would you like to gain personal power in the current relationship? Work one-on-one with me to explore, understand, and create full clarity. Schedule your first session with me today! https://www.ashleyberges.com/coaching-sessions Are you in a relationship with someone who displays the signs and symptoms of BPD and you're working to understand how to navigate that relationship, you may want to look into taking my masterclass on living with someone with BPD. The master class offers you clarity and understanding to get out of the emotional blender and see yourself and the other person with clarity. It's time to stop questioning yourself, it's time to get your identity back. Get the information about the master class here: https://www.ashleyberges.com/bpdmasterclass read more read less

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