Why aren't families looking after their elderly? Are people too selfish? Is it their fault or is it just not possible given the pressures of modern living and the fractured family networks in our instant gratification society. This is another symptom of social dysfunction from the corrosive farce of democracy and instant gratification where society thinks it's acceptable that a Prime Minister giving a seminal speach should be handed a P45 by a comedian. The main issue here is therefore one of the necessity for correct leadership and how too much autonomy is just a sign of a week leadership and the folly of political correctness that leads to John Lewis only stocking gender neutral toddler clothes. Unthinkable a year ago but unfortunately reality now. Therefore don't blame the people fix our leadership and fix society and people will always follow.