In my opinion, gaslighting is one of the main emotional abusive traits a narcissist has. It is the one thing they will do to manipulate you, to always try to get their way. They want to control your mind! They won't stop until their mission is accomplished. The only way you can survive with a narcissist is to lose your sense of self and be their doormat, because they're going to walk all over you! Get educated about the personality disorder and take your power back!