It doesn't matter who it is, best-friend, niece, cousin ... who wants to go to an event celebrating a marriage when your own marriage is falling apart or if you're in the middle of all the legal wrangling or even when you're just starting out on your own again?

Can you say no to wedding invites?

Can you go solo, even before you and your spouse have gone public?

Who else can you take as a plus one?

How do you handle those awkward questions from extended family members?

Joining Mandy for this Conversation is Elise Pettus, founder of Untied.net, an online magazine and real-life community based in New York, for women going through divorce. Pettus says weddings are the perfect opportunity to push yourself out of your comfort zone and to start exploring the next phase of your life and she has plenty of suggestions for keeping them fun.

Check out Mandy's Since My Divorce blog for a synopsis of the show.