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Big’Ole Baxter keeps biting off more than she can chew and feeding the drama. Crae Thomas keeps acting crazy and losing control. Cryyee Deville keeps boo-hoo-ing and flooding the stage with tears. But you? You’re the director, and with God, the GOAT, guiding your script... you already know who wins in every scene! Support the show

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How many excuses have you made, based upon THAT same old STORY?
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This is a timeless clip from 2020 that has been sitting in my hard drive.

#BeEncouraged #PrayBecauseWeAllNeedIt! #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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• When you create an issue and a problem that didn't exist, you end up with an issue and a problem that didn't have to exist if you hadn't created it! 
• Evil is what evil does!
• Some people, maybe even YOU, need to go and be therap-IZED, psycholog-IZED, psychiatr-IZED, counsel-IZED, and/or baptIZED and bornAGAIN!
  
  

#RestYourMindandStopThinkingSoMuch! #ItsOkToBeThoughtlessSometimes! #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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• When you create an issue and a problem that didn't exist, you end up with an issue and a problem that didn't have to exist if you hadn't created it! 
• Evil is what evil does!
• Some people, maybe even YOU, need to go and be therap-IZED, psycholog-IZED, psychiatr-IZED, counsel-IZED, and/or baptIZED and bornAGAIN!
  
  

#RestYourMindandStopThinkingSoMuch! #ItsOkToBeThoughtlessSometimes! #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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You asked, and here's my answer regarding "cussing" and those other issues you mentioned. Read between the lines and fill/feel in your gaps...

• No one always does what's right or is always right about everything. 
• Where there's a will, there's a way.
• Big or small, wrong is wrong. 
• A lie is a lie. 
• Sin is sin, and the choice is yours to make. 
• Your spiritual walk, or not, speaks for itself and impacts more lives than you know.

#Thinkaboutthat #StoppoiningandThumbYOUrself #GetrightandliverightER #Askforforgiveness #Forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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You asked, and here's my answer regarding "cussing" and those other issues you mentioned. Read between the lines and fill/feel in your gaps...

• No one always does what's right or is always right about everything. 
• Where there's a will, there's a way.
• Big or small, wrong is wrong. 
• A lie is a lie. 
• Sin is sin, and the choice is yours to make. 
• Your spiritual walk, or not, speaks for itself and impacts more lives than you know.

#Thinkaboutthat #StoppoiningandThumbYOUrself #GetrightandliverightER #Askforforgiveness #Forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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#mymindismypoweranddefense!
#thinkinsideoftheboxyoucreate!
#laughatyourselftodryyourtears!

I encourage everyone to get to know YOUrself. Identify your many roles in life. Manage and shape the handling of each role. Create safe boundaries, abide by them, and conduct yourself accordingly. 
Be careful to not allow your mouth,  action, and intention to contradict one another.
I recognize fake people and l “ACT” accordingly, in my own sweet and clueless way. If it comes to the point that I need to switch it up; I switch it up and I deal with it in a safe and healthy manner. I know my creative strengths; figure out yours and use them because they may benefit you in more ways than one.

"It's okay to think inside of the box that you create before executing outside of it."  #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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#mymindismypoweranddefense!
#thinkinsideoftheboxyoucreate!
#laughatyourselftodryyourtears!

I encourage everyone to get to know YOUrself. Identify your many roles in life. Manage and shape the handling of each role. Create safe boundaries, abide by them, and conduct yourself accordingly. 
Be careful to not allow your mouth,  action, and intention to contradict one another.
I recognize fake people and l “ACT” accordingly, in my own sweet and clueless way. If it comes to the point that I need to switch it up; I switch it up and I deal with it in a safe and healthy manner. I know my creative strengths; figure out yours and use them because they may benefit you in more ways than one.

"It's okay to think inside of the box that you create before executing outside of it."  #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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Listening to what you have to say allows you to hear, feel, and develop a healthy relationship with YOUrself and others.

#arelationshipwithGodis1standforemost #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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Listening to what you have to say allows you to hear, feel, and develop a healthy relationship with YOUrself and others.

#arelationshipwithGodis1standforemost #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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An important mental note that is underemphasized, underestimated, and is not highlighted as much as it should be regards the fact that: DV abuse does not discriminate against gender, culture, religion, age, etc., and neither does mental illness.

 #dvawarenessmattersforallpeopleinallplaces #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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An important mental note that is underemphasized, underestimated, and is not highlighted as much as it should be regards the fact that: DV abuse does not discriminate against gender, culture, religion, age, etc., and neither does mental illness.

 #dvawarenessmattersforallpeopleinallplaces #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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Insecure Villains who play Victim come in young and old bodies. Age ain't nothing but a number; believe it! Word ain't always bond; believe it! Love is loosely and lyingly slung around, and some friendships are relationshipLESS; believe it!
This truth has been traveling through relationships for far longer than most will admit. Pay attention and act like you know.

#bewareofyoungandoldvillainswhoplayvictim  ##selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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Insecure Villains who play Victim come in young and old bodies. Age ain't nothing but a number; believe it! Word ain't always bond; believe it! Love is loosely and lyingly slung around, and some friendships are relationshipLESS; believe it!
This truth has been traveling through relationships for far longer than most will admit. Pay attention and act like you know.

#bewareofyoungandoldvillainswhoplayvictim  ##selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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This is about her-mother, but he-father is coming soon.#forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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This is about her-mother, but he-father is coming soon.#forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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*Don't be just "plain wrong" with no idea of how to get right, and again, not period, but !

#chasethechangeyouneed #forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters
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*Don't be just "plain wrong" with no idea of how to get right, and again, not period, but !

#chasethechangeyouneed #forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters
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Too often, I'm listening to individuals address business and personal issues after the fact of this or that occurring, while they're struggling to pick themselves back up and thrive. 
When I'm asked, I encourage those on the receiving end of my advice to pray about it, and choose their battles wisely. Some do, and some don't. Some will, and some won't; to each his or her own.

#chooseyourbattleswisely #forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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Too often, I'm listening to individuals address business and personal issues after the fact of this or that occurring, while they're struggling to pick themselves back up and thrive. 
When I'm asked, I encourage those on the receiving end of my advice to pray about it, and choose their battles wisely. Some do, and some don't. Some will, and some won't; to each his or her own.

#chooseyourbattleswisely #forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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#stresskills #nomorestress #stopthestress #stressrelief #stress #stressmanagement 
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Experience is an awesome teacher, and sharing is one of the best gifts that an experienced person can give.

#havingaconversayshonwitmyblackself #forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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Experience is an awesome teacher, and sharing is one of the best gifts that an experienced person can give.

#havingaconversayshonwitmyblackself #forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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It's only hard to do until you've done it.#forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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It's only hard to do until you've done it.#forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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#stopit #vanity #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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#stopit #vanity #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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From a witty, competent, and mature perspective, before you talk and listen to someone else, learning how to positively talk, hear, listen to understand, and control yourself should be a priority. Whatever approach you choose to sanely, legally, ethically, and morally take, the goal should be to positively control your behavior and conduct for the good of, everything, at all times.

#negabye #fussing #hellacious #bothersome #stupefaction #forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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From a witty, competent, and mature perspective, before you talk and listen to someone else, learning how to positively talk, hear, listen to understand, and control yourself should be a priority. Whatever approach you choose to sanely, legally, ethically, and morally take, the goal should be to positively control your behavior and conduct for the good of, everything, at all times.

#negabye #fussing #hellacious #bothersome #stupefaction #forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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The most dominating forms of abuse are committed in the home, or by a lover or a loved one. Domestic Violence births so many feelings and emotions within the victim, and it also builds character and traits, not to mention the many other mental health disorders that it invokes and pokes. Anger, fear, low self-esteem, rage, panic, combativeness, and disorders like, PTSD, anxiety, depression, psychosis, and a lot of other situational disorders are just to name a few.
Yes, DV is a Mother-For-Ya!#forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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The most dominating forms of abuse are committed in the home, or by a lover or a loved one. Domestic Violence births so many feelings and emotions within the victim, and it also builds character and traits, not to mention the many other mental health disorders that it invokes and pokes. Anger, fear, low self-esteem, rage, panic, combativeness, and disorders like, PTSD, anxiety, depression, psychosis, and a lot of other situational disorders are just to name a few.
Yes, DV is a Mother-For-Ya!#forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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The moment you decide that you're stopping to change your toxic habitual behavior of whatever it was you were addicted to doing is the very moment that you should declare-the-change and allow yourself to be supported in the change. #forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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The moment you decide that you're stopping to change your toxic habitual behavior of whatever it was you were addicted to doing is the very moment that you should declare-the-change and allow yourself to be supported in the change. #forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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• The issue regarding you being abandoned by someone else stemmed from an issue outside of you. 
• The fact that you've been unable to find resolution and peace regarding the issue is likely because you stole it and made it your own. 
• You're an Issue Thief. Stop stealing!
•  Protect your heart, mind, and soul, and release that issue back to its rightful owner. 
• Tell yourself the truth about lies that you told yourself.#forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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• The issue regarding you being abandoned by someone else stemmed from an issue outside of you. 
• The fact that you've been unable to find resolution and peace regarding the issue is likely because you stole it and made it your own. 
• You're an Issue Thief. Stop stealing!
•  Protect your heart, mind, and soul, and release that issue back to its rightful owner. 
• Tell yourself the truth about lies that you told yourself.#forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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According to the American Psychological Association and the APA Dictionary:
Abuse - physical mistreatment but also encompasses sexual and psychological (emotional) mistreatment.
ACEs - Adverse Childhood Experiences.
Pity - a feeling of sorrow and compassion for people who are unhappy, suffering, or otherwise unfortunate or in distress.

According to Tae':
Nega's stands for, Negatives!#forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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According to the American Psychological Association and the APA Dictionary:
Abuse - physical mistreatment but also encompasses sexual and psychological (emotional) mistreatment.
ACEs - Adverse Childhood Experiences.
Pity - a feeling of sorrow and compassion for people who are unhappy, suffering, or otherwise unfortunate or in distress.

According to Tae':
Nega's stands for, Negatives!#forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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Valid Suggestion: If we can learn how to mind our own business and control the yip-yap that comes from our mouths, a lot of unnecessary pain, negative emotions, and unhealthy/broken relationships would likely be avoided and/or salvageable. Everyone has issues connected to their story but everyone's story-issues ain't your business or problem to involve yourself in or solve, point-blank-period#forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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Valid Suggestion: If we can learn how to mind our own business and control the yip-yap that comes from our mouths, a lot of unnecessary pain, negative emotions, and unhealthy/broken relationships would likely be avoided and/or salvageable. Everyone has issues connected to their story but everyone's story-issues ain't your business or problem to involve yourself in or solve, point-blank-period#forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
#stresskills #nomorestress #stopthestress #stressrelief #stress #stressmanagement 
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#forgive #selfidentity #selflove #selfacceptance #behappy #tragedy  #trauma #thegiftoflife #GodIsGoodToAndForMe #mentalhealth  #spiritual #spirituallyminded  #spirituality #butgod  #emotionalhealing #emotionalwellness #inspirational #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selfacceptancejourney #selfimprovement #selfaccountability #selfempowerment #selfhelpadvocacy #mentalhealthstigma #mentalhealthdiscussion #emotionalstory #emotionaljourney #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #Godmatters 
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