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ON THE CONTRARY is the podcast presented by Onsite! that explores love, dating, sex, marriage, divorce, city girls, f@#$ boys, and everything in between. Each episode, our hosts pull up a seat for honest, unfiltered conversations about relationships, boundaries, friendship, and the messy in-between moments everyone's lived through but few talk about out loud.

Equal parts funny, real, and a little chaotic; this is the group chat you wish you were in.
Available on YouTube and wherever you listen to podcasts.
]]>enRelationshipsCopyright Onsite! Global Mediahttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a491393cb4842afad865a3319fd5fbf1.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/on-the-contrary--7278660Thu, 27 Aug 2026 19:48:34 +0000Onsite! Global MediaOnsite! Global Mediainfo@onsiteglobalmedia.comON THE CONTRARY, presented by Onsite! ON THE CONTRARY is the podcast presented by Onsite! that explores love, dating, sex, marriage, divorce, city girls, f@#$ boys, and everything in between. Each episode, our hosts pull up a seat for honest,...
ON THE CONTRARY is the podcast presented by Onsite! that explores love, dating, sex, marriage, divorce, city girls, f@#$ boys, and everything in between. Each episode, our hosts pull up a seat for honest, unfiltered conversations about relationships, boundaries, friendship, and the messy in-between moments everyone's lived through but few talk about out loud.

Equal parts funny, real, and a little chaotic; this is the group chat you wish you were in.
Available on YouTube and wherever you listen to podcasts.
]]>true938a0fde-0e04-57df-a13a-16cead71a7df5b440330-9c1b-11f1-b7b7-c5a46ed3a0e3episodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-too-old-for-the-club--74723308
At some point, the club stops feeling like a release and starts feeling like a chore. Especially when you need acid reflux medication just to get through the night. 💊 Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, Taz, and the full panel are back at the table. This episode, they're getting into something that sounds lighthearted but actually hits a lot differently the older you get: how do you define fun?

And does that definition have an expiration date? Please visit our website for more https://www.onsiteglobalmedia.us/ Rico says there's absolutely an age limit to the club, and he has the numbers to prove it. Luis says it's less about age and more about what you're looking for.

Kash flips the whole conversation: the real question isn't whether you're too old for it, it's whether doing it is funding your growth or funding your regression. And if you come home relieved that the night is over? That's your answer. 🗣️ Then, a caller drops a situation the panel could not stop talking about: she has two friend groups—one that still goes out hard and one that has fully settled into lounge mode. She doesn't know which version of herself is the real one anymore.

The panel goes deep. Somewhere between the club age debate, the bottle section conversation, and what fun actually looks like in your 30s and 40s, the answer isn't what you think. Stop living to work. Start working to live.

And figure out what actually makes you feel good while you're at it. We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74723308Thu, 27 Aug 2026 19:40:41 +0000Onsite! Global MediaSeason 2, Episode 7: How Do You Define Fun at Different Ages? At some point, the club stops feeling like a release and starts feeling like a chore. Especially when you need acid reflux medication just to get through the night. 💊 Kash the Sexologist,...
At some point, the club stops feeling like a release and starts feeling like a chore. Especially when you need acid reflux medication just to get through the night. 💊 Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, Taz, and the full panel are back at the table. This episode, they're getting into something that sounds lighthearted but actually hits a lot differently the older you get: how do you define fun?

And does that definition have an expiration date? Please visit our website for more https://www.onsiteglobalmedia.us/ Rico says there's absolutely an age limit to the club, and he has the numbers to prove it. Luis says it's less about age and more about what you're looking for.

Kash flips the whole conversation: the real question isn't whether you're too old for it, it's whether doing it is funding your growth or funding your regression. And if you come home relieved that the night is over? That's your answer. 🗣️ Then, a caller drops a situation the panel could not stop talking about: she has two friend groups—one that still goes out hard and one that has fully settled into lounge mode. She doesn't know which version of herself is the real one anymore.

The panel goes deep. Somewhere between the club age debate, the bottle section conversation, and what fun actually looks like in your 30s and 40s, the answer isn't what you think. Stop living to work. Start working to live.

And figure out what actually makes you feel good while you're at it. We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.]]>2860falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/does-long-term-mean-low-desire--74643680
Or is it just what long term actually looks like? Kash, Luis, Rico, Taz and the full panel are back at the table and this episode they are going somewhere most people don't want to go what really happens to intimacy in a long term relationship.

Does desire naturally decline over time? If you find yourself curious about something different, does that make you a bad partner or just an honest human being?

Kash comes in with a perspective and breaks down the difference between sexual chemistry and sexual alignment and why alignment is actually what keeps couples together long after the chemistry fades. Rico says boredom is real and the same moves after ten years is a conversation worth having. Taz gets honest about what she actually values in a relationship versus what the world tells her she should. And Luis?

 Luis draws the line between looking, liking, and acting and says longevity depends on which side of that line you stay on. Then a caller drops a situation that stops the whole panel. Nine years in, and her man has gone from every day to once a month.

Nobody fully agrees on what's causing it. Everybody has an opinion on what she should do next. Sex can get boring without connection.

The question is do you even want the longevity?

We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74643680Mon, 24 Aug 2026 19:30:02 +0000Onsite! Global MediaNobody wants to admit it. But after years with the same person the desire shifts. Is that normal? Is it a problem? Or is it just what long term actually looks like? Kash, Luis, Rico, Taz and the full panel are back at the table and this episode they...
Or is it just what long term actually looks like? Kash, Luis, Rico, Taz and the full panel are back at the table and this episode they are going somewhere most people don't want to go what really happens to intimacy in a long term relationship.

Does desire naturally decline over time? If you find yourself curious about something different, does that make you a bad partner or just an honest human being?

Kash comes in with a perspective and breaks down the difference between sexual chemistry and sexual alignment and why alignment is actually what keeps couples together long after the chemistry fades. Rico says boredom is real and the same moves after ten years is a conversation worth having. Taz gets honest about what she actually values in a relationship versus what the world tells her she should. And Luis?

 Luis draws the line between looking, liking, and acting and says longevity depends on which side of that line you stay on. Then a caller drops a situation that stops the whole panel. Nine years in, and her man has gone from every day to once a month.

Nobody fully agrees on what's causing it. Everybody has an opinion on what she should do next. Sex can get boring without connection.

The question is do you even want the longevity?

We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.]]>3409false26fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/women-don-t-lose-friends-they-outgrow-them--74643218
We’re flipping all of it today. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Rico, and Taz are at the table and this episode they’re getting into one of the most layered conversations the panel has had all season female friendships. Who benefits from women believing they can’t trust each other?

What does it actually take to build a friendship between women that lasts?

And is it really that women lose friends or that they outgrow them? Rico comes in immediately with zero female friends and zero apologies about it.

The women at the table are not letting that slide. Kash breaks down the tiers of friendship and why not every friend is meant for every room. Rah gets real about the friends you love but can’t bring everywhere and why that’s not a betrayal, it’s just knowing your people.

And Taz brings the perspective that stops the whole conversation sometimes the friendship doesn’t end, it just changes shape. And we have to get comfortable with that.

Then a caller drops a situation that hits different her best friend of 12 years has gone cold and won’t say why. The panel is divided on what to do next.

Women don’t lose friends. They outgrow them. And that’s not something to apologize for.

We’re not letting anybody off the hook.

On the contrary. Please visit our website for more http://www.onsiteglobalmedia.us/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74643218Mon, 24 Aug 2026 19:00:02 +0000Onsite! Global MediaThe narrative that women can’t keep friends, that we’re catty, competitive, and disloyal? We’re flipping all of it today. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Rico, and Taz are at the table and this episode they’re getting into one of the most layered...
We’re flipping all of it today. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Rico, and Taz are at the table and this episode they’re getting into one of the most layered conversations the panel has had all season female friendships. Who benefits from women believing they can’t trust each other?

What does it actually take to build a friendship between women that lasts?

And is it really that women lose friends or that they outgrow them? Rico comes in immediately with zero female friends and zero apologies about it.

The women at the table are not letting that slide. Kash breaks down the tiers of friendship and why not every friend is meant for every room. Rah gets real about the friends you love but can’t bring everywhere and why that’s not a betrayal, it’s just knowing your people.

And Taz brings the perspective that stops the whole conversation sometimes the friendship doesn’t end, it just changes shape. And we have to get comfortable with that.

Then a caller drops a situation that hits different her best friend of 12 years has gone cold and won’t say why. The panel is divided on what to do next.

Women don’t lose friends. They outgrow them. And that’s not something to apologize for.

We’re not letting anybody off the hook.

On the contrary. Please visit our website for more http://www.onsiteglobalmedia.us/]]>2861false25fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bonnets-durags-outside-comfort-or-careless-on-the-contrary--74642686
It sounds like a small conversation. It is not a small conversation.

Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Taz, and the full panel are back at the table, and this episode starts a debate that had everybody in their feelings before the first commercial break. Bonnets and durags outside—where do we draw the line? Is it a style choice, a cultural norm, a comfort thing, or has it become an excuse to stop caring about how we show up in public?

Please visit our website for more https://www.onsiteglobalmedia.us/

Luis comes in immediately with his position and he is not backing down. He wears his durag on the way to the function, takes it off when he gets there, and sees nothing wrong with that. The panel is not fully convinced. Kash draws the line at bonnets specifically and makes the case for the silk scarf instead.

She breaks it all the way down: it's not really about the bonnet or the durag, it's about perception, image, and the version of yourself you're putting out into the world. Rah Ali even admits to being a bit of a hypocrite, confessing she loves a comfortable mumu and bonnet but will still pass judgment on others who step outside in them!

Then the conversation takes a sharp left turn into men getting their nails painted, proper hookah posture, and whether any of it is a dealbreaker in a relationship. It goes exactly where you think it's going to go and somehow goes further. There's a time and a place for everything.

The question is do you know the difference? 

We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74642686Mon, 24 Aug 2026 18:30:04 +0000Onsite! Global MediaSeason 2, Episode 4: "Bonnets & Durags Outside: Yes or No" It sounds like a small conversation. It is not a small conversation. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Taz, and the full panel are back at the table, and this episode starts a debate...
It sounds like a small conversation. It is not a small conversation.

Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Taz, and the full panel are back at the table, and this episode starts a debate that had everybody in their feelings before the first commercial break. Bonnets and durags outside—where do we draw the line? Is it a style choice, a cultural norm, a comfort thing, or has it become an excuse to stop caring about how we show up in public?

Please visit our website for more https://www.onsiteglobalmedia.us/

Luis comes in immediately with his position and he is not backing down. He wears his durag on the way to the function, takes it off when he gets there, and sees nothing wrong with that. The panel is not fully convinced. Kash draws the line at bonnets specifically and makes the case for the silk scarf instead.

She breaks it all the way down: it's not really about the bonnet or the durag, it's about perception, image, and the version of yourself you're putting out into the world. Rah Ali even admits to being a bit of a hypocrite, confessing she loves a comfortable mumu and bonnet but will still pass judgment on others who step outside in them!

Then the conversation takes a sharp left turn into men getting their nails painted, proper hookah posture, and whether any of it is a dealbreaker in a relationship. It goes exactly where you think it's going to go and somehow goes further. There's a time and a place for everything.

The question is do you know the difference? 

We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.]]>2935false24fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-is-it-so-hard-for-men-to-tell-the-truth-on-the-contrary--74642114
 Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table, and this episode they are going all the way in on the one conversation most people avoid: why is it so hard for men to just tell the truth? Is it avoidance? Is it conditioning? Or have some women actually created an environment where lying feels safer than honesty?

 Please visit our website for more https://www.onsiteglobalmedia.us/ Rico comes in immediately with a take that divides the whole room: some women need to be lied to in order to function in a relationship. Kash is not letting that slide, Luis is somewhere in the middle trying to reason his way through it, and Taz brings a personal story that stops the entire conversation cold.

 Then the panel goes somewhere nobody expected. What happens when the lie isn’t about a relationship, but about identity? When a child grows up not knowing who their real father is? The table gets real, it gets personal, and it gets heavy. And the question underneath all of it is the same one it’s always been: who does the lie actually protect? Because when you actively lie to someone, you are robbing them of the time it would take them to heal. Rip the Band-Aid off. The truth will set you free.

 We’re not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74642114Mon, 24 Aug 2026 18:00:03 +0000Onsite! Global MediaSeason 2, Episode 3: Why is it so hard for men to tell the truth? Lies have ended more relationships than cheating ever has. And nobody on this panel is pretending otherwise. 🛑  Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table, and this...
 Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table, and this episode they are going all the way in on the one conversation most people avoid: why is it so hard for men to just tell the truth? Is it avoidance? Is it conditioning? Or have some women actually created an environment where lying feels safer than honesty?

 Please visit our website for more https://www.onsiteglobalmedia.us/ Rico comes in immediately with a take that divides the whole room: some women need to be lied to in order to function in a relationship. Kash is not letting that slide, Luis is somewhere in the middle trying to reason his way through it, and Taz brings a personal story that stops the entire conversation cold.

 Then the panel goes somewhere nobody expected. What happens when the lie isn’t about a relationship, but about identity? When a child grows up not knowing who their real father is? The table gets real, it gets personal, and it gets heavy. And the question underneath all of it is the same one it’s always been: who does the lie actually protect? Because when you actively lie to someone, you are robbing them of the time it would take them to heal. Rip the Band-Aid off. The truth will set you free.

 We’re not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.]]>3408false23fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/did-independent-women-anthems-ruin-modern-relationships-on-the-contrary--74641611On The Contrary, we tackle how female empowerment anthems and the "I don't need a man" mindset shaped modern dating. We're breaking down whether popular culture built genuine female independence or accidentally created a barrier to intimacy, hypergamy expectations, and mutual respect in relationships. Tune in for an unfiltered conversation on ego, romance, and where modern connection goes from here.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74641611Mon, 24 Aug 2026 17:30:02 +0000Onsite! Global MediaDid music fuel a generation of single women, or did it just push back against unequal standards? On this episode of On The Contrary, we tackle how female empowerment anthems and the "I don't need a man" mindset shaped modern dating. We're breaking...On The Contrary, we tackle how female empowerment anthems and the "I don't need a man" mindset shaped modern dating. We're breaking down whether popular culture built genuine female independence or accidentally created a barrier to intimacy, hypergamy expectations, and mutual respect in relationships. Tune in for an unfiltered conversation on ego, romance, and where modern connection goes from here.]]>2891false22fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/do-men-really-like-women-who-don-t-got-sh-t-on-the-contrary--74638708On The Contrary, we unpack the controversial debate around modern dating, money, and power dynamics in relationships. From the myth that men prefer women who "don't got sh*t" to what really creates genuine partnership, we’re challenging the online narratives and getting real about what men actually look for in a partner. Tune in as we separate reality from internet hype and dive deep into the truths no one else wants to talk about.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74638708Mon, 24 Aug 2026 17:00:02 +0000Onsite! Global MediaDoes financial independence actually matter to men, or is social media lying to you? On this episode of On The Contrary, we unpack the controversial debate around modern dating, money, and power dynamics in relationships. From the myth that men prefer...On The Contrary, we unpack the controversial debate around modern dating, money, and power dynamics in relationships. From the myth that men prefer women who "don't got sh*t" to what really creates genuine partnership, we’re challenging the online narratives and getting real about what men actually look for in a partner. Tune in as we separate reality from internet hype and dive deep into the truths no one else wants to talk about.]]>3368false21fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-onlyfans-ruining-relationships-or-redefining-power--74330845a0848ccb-bdfc-41bc-bf15-83e94ec4bd77Tue, 08 Apr 2025 23:17:48 +0000Onsite! Global MediaOnlyFans: Empowerment or betrayal?
In this explosive episode of On The Contrary, we dive deep into the blurred lines between independence, intimacy, and insecurity.We’re asking the real questions:•Is starting an OnlyFans without your partner’s...2791falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/booty-calls-part-2-when-feelings-get-involved-it-gets-messy-on-the-contrary--7433085298cd4dea-90c4-4bee-9fa7-53ed09d59209Tue, 01 Apr 2025 23:05:58 +0000Onsite! Global MediaThe conversation gets even hotter in Part 2—because let’s be real… once feelings get involved, booty calls get complicated. This episode, we’re diving into the real-life situations, the messy moments, and when “just sex” turns into something way...2341falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-hip-hop-hurting-the-black-community-or-telling-its-truth--74331077We dive into the hard questions:
Is hip-hop destroying the Black household or just exposing it?How does music influence how Black men treat Black women—and vice versa?Are absent fathers the real root issue, or is it something deeper?Can love survive in a culture shaped by lyrics glorifying money, power, and pain?This isn’t just about music. This is about accountability, healing, and breaking cycles. If you're ready for a raw, unfiltered look at culture, community, and truth—press play.
]]>f227a11e-51c2-4804-8bec-fc8cbb852060Tue, 25 Mar 2025 23:13:11 +0000Onsite! Global MediaDoes hip-hop reflect the struggles of the Black community—or does it reinforce them? In this unapologetic episode of On The Contrary, the conversation gets deep, emotional, and real as we unpack the impact of hip-hop on Black relationships, families,...We dive into the hard questions:
Is hip-hop destroying the Black household or just exposing it?How does music influence how Black men treat Black women—and vice versa?Are absent fathers the real root issue, or is it something deeper?Can love survive in a culture shaped by lyrics glorifying money, power, and pain?This isn’t just about music. This is about accountability, healing, and breaking cycles. If you're ready for a raw, unfiltered look at culture, community, and truth—press play.
]]>2779falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/booty-calls-no-strings-fun-or-just-a-fast-track-to-drama-on-the-contrary--74330878🔥 Can booty calls ever stay drama-free?🔥 Do men and women see them the same way?🔥 How much are people actually spending just to get some?!
We’re talking the do’s, the don’ts, and the straight-up messy moments. Tap in, don’t get caught up, and let’s get into it!
📺 Watch now exclusively on ItsonsiteTV.com & YouTube!💬 Drop a comment—are booty calls a good setup or a waste of time?]]>aab0c415-ac88-4873-b7bf-4ea47417605aTue, 18 Mar 2025 23:56:04 +0000Onsite! Global MediaAre booty calls really no strings attached, or is someone always catching feelings? This episode, we’re breaking down the game—from sneaky links to whether a late-night “come thru” can turn into something real. 🔥 Can booty calls ever stay drama-free?🔥...🔥 Can booty calls ever stay drama-free?🔥 Do men and women see them the same way?🔥 How much are people actually spending just to get some?!
We’re talking the do’s, the don’ts, and the straight-up messy moments. Tap in, don’t get caught up, and let’s get into it!
📺 Watch now exclusively on ItsonsiteTV.com & YouTube!💬 Drop a comment—are booty calls a good setup or a waste of time?]]>1806falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/polygamy-true-love-or-just-an-excuse-to-cheat--74330898824d70b1-4317-4b60-bc57-fef619e7e848Wed, 12 Mar 2025 01:25:44 +0000Onsite! Global MediaIs polygamy real love or just a way to avoid commitment? We’re debating whether having multiple partners is about freedom, emotional maturity, or control. Does it actually work, or is it just chaos?💬 What do you think? Drop your thoughts in the...3540falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/would-you-sleep-with-a-married-person-the-controversial-truth--74331113588c63a9-ec0f-4db7-a4d5-cb8122e102feTue, 04 Mar 2025 23:40:59 +0000Onsite! Global MediaIs it ever okay to sleep with someone who’s married? Is cheating always black and white, or are there gray areas? In this explosive episode of On The Contrary, we dive into the moral, emotional, and societal consequences of infidelity.3682falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/men-vs-women-the-brutal-truth-about-cheating-forgiveness--7433086260799648-61db-4159-bf92-7c2ddd8aa2cfTue, 25 Feb 2025 23:21:31 +0000Onsite! Global MediaWhy is it that when men cheat, they want a second chance—but when women cheat, it’s unforgivable? In this explosive conversation, we break down the double standards of infidelity, how men and women cheat differently, and the role social media plays in...2920false50fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/get-it-how-you-live-featuring-eliza-reign--74330865]]>f1108d1e-5146-4bc5-87a2-c6aaabecc55eWed, 22 Jan 2025 00:00:00 +0000Onsite! Global MediaIn this episode, we have Eliza Reign in the studio, and things get heated when she and Organik discuss a man's role in dating. We also find out if dating someone who lives far has its benefits and we help a listener who is dating a younger woman. ]]>3156false47fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-best-of-2024-part-2--7433086877d61250-4f00-4b8c-9c7c-6ea42bae5304Thu, 19 Dec 2024 14:16:29 +0000Onsite! Global MediaEven more laughs, more advice and more best moments of 2024.1857falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-best-of-2024--7433087331807316-fe3d-4b82-866e-5cf00eb1fb6fThu, 19 Dec 2024 14:14:44 +0000Onsite! Global MediaIn this episode we put together all the best advice, laughs and best moments of 2024.1666false44fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/work-husband--74331039ee822939-c3da-49ff-991a-1fd7b7732bd0Tue, 03 Dec 2024 14:55:51 +0000Onsite! Global MediaOn this episode we learn about the pitfalls of workplace relationships and the hosts give a listener some advice after making a mistake at work that could cost her the bag.2166false43fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/cougar-chronicles--74330909800c39f9-84dc-49a2-906a-e96b97df91adTue, 19 Nov 2024 13:53:00 +0000Onsite! Global MediaIn this episode we find out who is still thinking about their ex, learning how to communicate with your partner and we give advice to a woman who is dating a younger man.2197false42fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/toy-story-with-diamond-the-body--74331122db7b1e1b-f5f1-478b-b719-11e1ac1a6681Tue, 12 Nov 2024 17:06:52 +0000Onsite! Global MediaOn this episode we have Diamond the Body sitting in the studio with the crew to discuss giving your partner a hall pass, being open minded about toys and googling someone before you ignore them.3709true40fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-ashy-to-classy--74330922ed07681c-a6f8-43a3-81c9-7fb2588bb820Tue, 12 Nov 2024 17:06:23 +0000Onsite! Global MediaIn this episode, we discover what we would change if we could travel back in time and how you upgrade your partner's style. We also help a listener who is dealing with a jealous husband.1775falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/break-my-soul--7433115450ce4a10-81ea-4120-9d57-421814e26beaTue, 29 Oct 2024 12:09:33 +0000Onsite! Global MediaHave you ever dated someone who embarrassed you or cheated to get out of a relationship? In this episode, we find out if those strategies work. We also discuss what to do after a breakup and what to avoid in new relationships.2069true39fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dating-after-a-breakup--74331042754b1a32-827b-454b-a3c8-d1455d2081b5Tue, 22 Oct 2024 13:25:54 +0000Onsite! Global MediaIn this episode, we find out if soul mates are real, if gifts should be returned after a breakup and what to do if you start missing an old flame. We also help a listener who is back in the market after a being in a long relationship. 01:02 Are soul...1757true38fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/more-money-more-problems--74331106e811ffa5-3f42-4aa4-bc68-6106f2248a17Wed, 16 Oct 2024 02:13:56 +0000Onsite! Global MediaIn this episode, we find out if life was easier before making money and we ask the age-old question does money buy happiness? We also help a listener who just came into some money and we find out if you can build an empire while also maintaining a...1700true37fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hurry-up-and-wait--7433088739045dfb-aa0d-49e7-95ea-e66739706638Tue, 08 Oct 2024 17:51:40 +0000Onsite! Global MediaIn this episode, we find out who likes to prank their significant other and if there is ever a time when your goals are more important than your relationship. The hosts also help a listener with a marriage ultimatum.3129true36fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thick-as-thieves--7433104752c596e3-67e2-4478-ad18-015511e013bdTue, 01 Oct 2024 13:56:08 +0000Onsite! Global MediaIn this episode, the hosts travel back in time and we find out what they would tell their younger selves. We also help a listener who has a BFF with sticky fingers.1742true35fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/long-distance-loving--74330902ce12753d-134b-4034-ac9a-208cc5b2c507Tue, 24 Sep 2024 19:44:51 +0000Onsite! Global MediaIn this episode we find out if one of the hosts has ever stolen from a partner and what's the craziest lie they have ever told someone. We also get to the bottom of long-distance relationships and if they ever work.2626true34fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/spying-on-your-boo--74330847 00:50 Have you ever created a fake account to find out if your significant lover is cheating? 03:20 What’s in Organik’s phone? 06:00 What are your last 10 photos? 08:45 What’s the craziest thing you’ve done in the name of love? 11:20 Why is Xena sleeping in the studio? 16:06 Luis shares a wild story about how far you will go for love. 21:03 He cheated on me 6 months ago! 28:00 Is monogamy overrated?  37:55 Quit the road rage.
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]]>2693true12fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/takeoff--7433116507704a83-e526-4c10-8b7e-c1b0cd932fe6Wed, 20 Dec 2023 01:00:46 +0000Onsite! Global MediaMeet your hosts as they welcome you to On The Contrary: The new podcast presented by Onsite! that explores Love, Dating, Sex, Marriage, Divorce, City Girls, F@#$ Boys and everything in between. Come take this journey with your hosts @Rah_Ali...1885true11full